riggs Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 I've posted before about a woman I encounter in my job as a delivery driver for FedEx. I definitely noticed her and the way she acted there was no doubt she noticed me. I called her work number in April to ask her out . She was nice, but right to point--she was involved. Fast forward six months, and there have been a couple instances recently where it's obvious she still notices me. I guess it's some innocent crush on her part, it just bugs me b/c I'm thinking about it again.
Candle037 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Hey, I feel the same way with this one guy that works with me. It is bothersome because you feel when she looks at you its like she wants you to do something and nothing happens and the look has intent and is held for a period of time. If there was no interest why hold it for a period of time right?. It does get in your head. If the opposite sex was not interested they would show it in clear body language I believe. Also when this guy that rejected me looks at me its like he has this smirk at times like he is thinking something and perhaps biding his time. For me I asked the guy I like out well heres what happened...... We flirt alot -we laugh he asked me what I was doing the weekend of and my phone rings......I get interrupted from him asking me out. He leaves and the conversation wasn't picked up. A few weeks later one of his friends is fishing around with me to see if I am single and I tell them yes and they said that they thought I was seeing someone and I said were done. I didn't think about it much but conveniently the next day the guy I like needs a ride to the mechanic to get his car out of the shop. Im really excited to help him out and on the ride there he asks alot of really pointed questions about where I am from and about my family backround as I am from eastern Canada. He asks why alot and I explain alot in a 30 minute car ride. He then talks about how girls he knows like to jump into things to fast with owning a house and having kids. He said in due time but it is 0 to 60 too fast right away. I questioned if we were talking about him and he said yes. He also said that women don't appreciate what he does for a living. I asked how old these women are and he said 27-30. I told him that its 5 years education in his trade and plus he makes good money and these women should know better. I do not let on anything about myself or what I am looking for during this conversation. So.......2 weeks later I ask him out to our christmas party and he says no he is keeping the night open and was rude to me. Not only was I rejected but he was rude to me. I am so confused as to why he is still after this continually flirting with me and engaging me in conversation and I am just ignoring him and my friends tell me that he stares at me (not in a creepy way). He even asks where I am if Im not at my desk. I ignore him entirely now and continue my work and avoid eye contact. I am not rude to him but I keep it very brief. Have I been lead on? I think were being lead on
Toddbt12y1 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 You're both being lead-on. Do not okay games that will hurt either of you two(not saying you're both playing games...only ppl you like.) Obvious they know you like them...so, they probably are taking advantage of it...in someway. Eitherway one is involved, the other is being picky or fearful(so...)
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