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I'm tall, dark and handsome ;).

Emotionally stable

Expressive and tactile

Extremely good in bed :D

Thoughtful and practical (yes, I will look after you when sick ;)).

And occasionally I'm a soppy romantic git.

 

:lmao: /cheese

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I'm not a huge dating guy and don't have too much luck with dating BUT I know my worth:

 

-I am handsome

-I am confident

-I am intelligent with a Masters degree ;-)

-I am loving

-I am loveable

-I am a good communicator

-I am healthy and try to take great care of myself through exercise and a good diet

 

-I am hilarious

-I am adventurous

-I am ambitious

-I am independent

-I know my worth

-I am kind

-I am willing to make compromises

-I am family-oriented

-I am WORKING on my patience lol

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I'm a nice person, I'm intelligent and caring, and I'd be really into sex too.

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I see very little worthwhile in pursuing in myself and if I were a woman I'm sure I'd avoid myself... That's generally how it goes for me or they just betray me and cast me aside...

 

While I could list all the positive things it seems few if any women actually desire them

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Physical stuff will get you noticed and "in the door" for the other person to get to know you better at deeper levels. Without that, you're pretty screwed.

And yet people who could afford to change their physical appearance don't, preferring to use that as an excuse to complain and feel sorry for themselves. Sad.

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What Soldier Boy says:

 

Beautiful AND "cute"

Wicked smart

Loving, thoughtful, patient, understanding

Loyal and trustworthy

Talented and ambitious

Funny (and he loves my laugh!)

Fit and adventurous

Good cook

And of course: totally sexually compatible ;)

 

:love:

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I am creative and loving

loyal and thoughtful,

goofy intelligent

adventurous spirit,

going to be extremely fit one day maybe next year

extremely loyal

i have a huge tribe that is accepting loving and mostly kind often sarcastic...and they love me

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This should boost my ego:

 

I am confident in my abillities

Goal oriented

Persistent

Always ready to go extra mile

Showing Initative

Caring

 

:)

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You have a genius IQ but you haven't figured out that you can get surgery to get rid of your extra weight and that there are extemely skilled plastic surgeons that can give you the face you want?

 

Here's the truth.

 

Dude looks good? He gets laid. He can be retarded, still has sex thrown at him by women of high quality. So, work on that, yes?

 

I'm dropping the weight with exercise and lifestyle change. This will result in me KEEPING the weight off and not rebound like people do when using surgical methods. It's slower, but it's better for you. Not only do you lose the weight but you build your habits to be more healthy in general.

 

And believe me, I know about the good looking guys getting women.

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-Smart

-Ambitious

-Funny

-Adventurous

-Creative

-Passionate

-Romantic

-Charming

-Deep

 

I too put out :p

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And yet people who could afford to change their physical appearance don't, preferring to use that as an excuse to complain and feel sorry for themselves. Sad.

 

No, some people would rather do it through a lifestyle change. Getting lap band surgery doesn't make you change your lifestyle. The way I'm doing it may be slower and be another 12-18 months, but IT WORKS. I'm not just eating less, I'm eating BETTER and exercising as well.

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When in love I aim to please my partner

 

I try my best

 

I come from a family full of long-term marriages therefore fidelity, commitment are important to me.

 

I don't look my age, therefore I am more "cute" than "stunning"

 

I am naturally thin

 

I have been told that I am very kind and generous

 

I am a good listener (unfortunately, for some people, that does mean I am generally quiet and soft-spoken)

 

etc etc.

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etc etc.

 

How big are your etc's?

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How big are your etc's?

 

What do you mean?

Posted
What do you mean?

 

:laugh: I was referring to specific body parts.

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Well my face attracts a lot of stares (positive ones).

 

Other than that, I have a huge personality. My sense of humor leaves no one indifferent, I can make and keep a conversation, hijack the attention of masses, and leave a lasting fascinating impression on people who meet me IRL. I have interesting stories to tell and the experience points to show for it, I'm strong(-willed) and manage very well on my own, I'm straightforward but not inconsiderate, actually horribly patient (I once had a client fall asleep on me after sex and I let him sleep and didn't charge him for the extra time).

 

I never hurt anyone on purpose and when I love someone, I am devoted, loyal, honest and passionate, though not clingy. Nothing scares me and you can take me on adventure (2 days ago I was having a blast being stuck near Gaya between artillery fire and missile rains), but I can also be classy and while you can enjoy toilet humor with me, I know when not to embarass you. I'm smart and can be trusted to help making decisions and finding solutions. I'm reliable and not afraid to walk the extra mile. What I do for a loved one, I do with love and the result always shows it. I'm experienced at raising little crying poop-dispensers. I know how to entertain, surprise, elicit laughter, and impress or fascinate over and over again; while I make most people comfortable around me and gain their trust easily, people won't get bored of me (I mean this in a good way). People tend to share real personal, sensitive stuff with me.

I can listen for hours and pretend to not be bored out of my mind with your whining.

Oh did I mention I guarantee orgasms and do porn-quality BJs, including deep throat?

I don't spend hours in the bathroom plucking my eyebrows or scrubbing that mud mask off my nose. While I take care of myself, I'm not a Barbie who will hog the bathroom, fret over her looks when going out, or waste money on looking as fake as possible. While having significant flaws, I manage to look good after a 10 minute shower.

I found the balance between taking life seriously enough to cherish it, and lightly enough to enjoy it.

And I'm very patient, understanding, and forgiving. While I do speak up when I've had enough, my patience can make me appear like a doormat.

I'm selfish enough to take care of my own needs and desires, but generous and sacrificing enough to share all I have.

 

Problem is, I'm also weird as hell ("Oh, you went to Turkey? Me too! Only to jail though.") and fat.

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I don't know how someone can describe him/herself with those positive characters.

'I am passionate, reliable, courteous, funny blah blah' ROFL.

When I read profiles with those descriptions, I see desperateness.

 

Will I trust what they say? Obviously not. So why do you even bother writing those traits? do you feel like you have to show in writing, instead of showing it personally???

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when you look at a quality, do it while using achievements something you were proud of

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What makes me worth dating?

 

Nothing. I'm insecure, unemployed, live at home, have no idea what I want to do with my life, and I'm completely inexperienced with women. The only attractive selling point is that I don't smoke and I'm disease free. But that's a bit like selling an old home in a bad neighborhood and highlighting its new carpeting and freshly mowed lawn.

 

If any woman ever has the guts to try to date me, I will seriously wonder what the hell was wrong with her to make her so desperate. And I'd probably bail. I wouldn't want to be in a club that would have me as a member...

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What makes me worth dating?

 

Nothing. I'm insecure, unemployed, live at home, have no idea what I want to do with my life, and I'm completely inexperienced with women. The only attractive selling point is that I don't smoke and I'm disease free. But that's a bit like selling an old home in a bad neighborhood and highlighting its new carpeting and freshly mowed lawn.

 

If any woman ever has the guts to try to date me, I will seriously wonder what the hell was wrong with her to make her so desperate. And I'd probably bail. I wouldn't want to be in a club that would have me as a member...

This is horrible.

Posted

I think putting out is the key :p

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I'm not a homeless meth addict

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Fortyninethousand, I am currently dating a man where I feel like you do. I think what are you doing with me. He is highly educated, as a matter of fact his whole family is, he's financially stable, and good looking. I am so far out of his league, it intimidates me. Some days I feel like bailing, to save myself the pain before he wakes up and does. I know I would bail on me. He is unlike anyone I have ever met, I don't understand why a man in his league would want to date me.

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