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runningfar Established Member

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I hope this doesn't get moved but it is Thanksgiving and I am about to leave to meet my boyfriend's family for the first time.

It's a positive day!

 

So, positive subject. What makes you a good potential partner? What do you appreciate about yourself that someone else will appreciate one day or now.

 

 

Me, I am a tenacious pursuing a goal or what I want. I am loyal. I am loving. I am intelligent. I will go out of my way to help those in need.

 

I have run over 100 miles (okay no one really cares about that but me but I promised myself at mile 75 if I finished I would bring it up at every opportunity until the next one.).

 

My boyfriend appreciates all of me, and qualities I don't think I have. His family better, too, darn it!

 

 

 

Why should or does someone date you??

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USMCHokie Established Member

USMCHokie

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Abs.

 

 

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runningfar Established Member

runningfar

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Abs.

 

 

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Haha! That can't be all.

Emilia Established Member

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I put out.

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Imajerk17 Established Member

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I put out.

 

I put out too. And you don't even need to buy me dinner or even promise to respect me in the morning.

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runningfar Established Member

runningfar

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I put out.

 

The thread was sincere.

People seem down on themselves. It's good to think about your positives especially when you doubt yourself.

USMCHokie Established Member

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Haha! That can't be all.

 

Unfortunately, that's all I've got. :(

Imajerk17 Established Member

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I'm intelligent, ambitious, pretty athletic, and I'm actually not really a jerk. :p

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Emilia Established Member

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The thread was sincere.

People seem down on themselves. It's good to think about your positives especially when you doubt yourself.

 

To be fair, I'm not insincere in a way and don't mean to ruin your thread sorry.

 

A lot of people have issues with intimacy though and I don't. So I'm sort of serious.

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IT Geek Established Member

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The Good:

 

  • I have Masters Degree in Computer Science
  • I have applied to be a PhD candiate
  • I have a well paying job and financially stable
  • I have a good sense of humor
  • I'm loyal, loving, compassionate, a "Southern Gentleman"
  • I'm passionate about things
  • I have a genius IQ
  • I'm a cornucopia of useless knowledge and rock at trivia night
  • I have a soft spot for animals
  • I eat helthy
  • I walk/hike 15-20 miles per week
  • I've lost a bunch of weight and continuing to lose through diet, cardio, and strength training

 

 

The Bad

 

  • I'm too logical minded and not creative enough
  • I tend to over-analyze things
  • Sometimes I get tunnel vision on things and have to force myself to back off and see the bigger picture
  • I'm on call 24/7 for emergency issues the lower tier engineers can't solve for our customers
  • I don't like sushi
  • I'm seriously lacking in the social skills department (Striking up conversations with women, asking someone on a first date, etc)

 

 

The Ugly

 

  • I have a face only a mother can love
  • I need to drop about 80 lbs before women would even consider going out with me

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Eternal Sunshine Established Member

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I am fun, adventurous, intelligent and I have nice eyes :p

 

I also put out :bunny:

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Minka333 Established Member

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I can be:

Prim and playful

Sweet and spicy

Naughty and nice

Tamed and feisty

Dumb and smart

Sexy and childlike

Hot and chill

 

 

I can be his happy pill:bunny:

Gold Pile Established Member

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What makes you worth dating?
I'm Gold Pile:cool:

 

(I put out too):o

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SoonMyFriend Established Member

SoonMyFriend

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Hm...

 

Well, I like to think I can offer the following to someone:

 

-I am funny

-I am intelligent

-I am attractive

-I am passionate about things I love

-I like to have fun

-I like to stay active and take care of myself

-I can be adventurous, I love to travel

-I am family oriented

-I have a good heart

-I love to bake so I can feed my partner baked goods

-I have a great outlook on life and feel good about where my life is headed

-I have not one, but two great jobs so my career isn't an issue

-I also put out once you get to know me and I trust you :p

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I'm in great shape

I'm very intelligent

I'm attractive

I'm witty

I've got a good job, savings etc

I don't lose my temper or get stressed

I have a great deal of empathy

I'm honest and reliable

I'm fantastic in bed

maybealone Established Member

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I am caring, funny, and clever.

 

I'm happy and I have a full life surrounded by wonderful friends and family.

 

I love sex, golf, and football.

 

I'm thin and I don't wear anything under my clothes that isn't black lace or leopard print.

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oooooh what a positive and inspiring thread!! i was on a bit of a downer today !

 

i was reading just yesterday that we should identify with our skills an abilities instead of achievements and accomplishments and its those traits that makes us and keeps us long term happy with or without a partner coz when we love an accept our selves like this we cannot not attract others! i have lost touch with my traits over the years and i will try and make a list and see if it works!

 

 

I'm thin and I don't wear anything under my clothes that isn't black lace or leopard print.

 

lol you sexy beast !!

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volentia Member

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Unfortunately, that's all I've got. :(

 

but thats just physical stuffs...

 

if you cant think of anything, ask others you trust and i bet they come up with something, because its impossible not to have none. you have a personality, think about what you can do, have achieved, regardless of whether you like it or not. even something as giving up smoking is riddled with positive qualities like persistance, strength, and willpower!

Emilia Established Member

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but thats just physical stuffs...

 

if you cant think of anything, ask others you trust and i bet they come up with something, because its impossible not to have none. you have a personality, think about what you can do, have achieved, regardless of whether you like it or not. even something as giving up smoking is ridles with positive qualities like persistance, strength, and willpower!

 

nah, he posts here a lot, it's just abs, trust me

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volentia Member

volentia

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The Good:

 

I have a face only a mother can love

 

so does stephen hawking and he is a genius! but that didnt stop him!:p

volentia Member

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nah, he posts here a lot, it's just abs, trust me

 

:laugh: oh god yes with over 11,000 posts i'm wondering if he even has anything left off his fingers:eek:

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Emilia Established Member

Emilia

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:laugh: oh god yes with over 11,000 posts i'm wondering if he even has anything left off his fingers:eek:

 

where he is posted right now he has more to worry about than his fingers :p

IT Geek Established Member

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but thats just physical stuffs...

 

Physical stuff will get you noticed and "in the door" for the other person to get to know you better at deeper levels. Without that, you're pretty screwed.

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SmileFace Established Member

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I am single.

 

Yeah - I have nothing else.

Hawakai Established Member

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The Good:

 

  • I have Masters Degree in Computer Science
  • I have applied to be a PhD candiate
  • I have a well paying job and financially stable
  • I have a good sense of humor
  • I'm loyal, loving, compassionate, a "Southern Gentleman"
  • I'm passionate about things
  • I have a genius IQ
  • I'm a cornucopia of useless knowledge and rock at trivia night
  • I have a soft spot for animals
  • I eat helthy
  • I walk/hike 15-20 miles per week
  • I've lost a bunch of weight and continuing to lose through diet, cardio, and strength training

 

 

The Bad

 

  • I'm too logical minded and not creative enough
  • I tend to over-analyze things
  • Sometimes I get tunnel vision on things and have to force myself to back off and see the bigger picture
  • I'm on call 24/7 for emergency issues the lower tier engineers can't solve for our customers
  • I don't like sushi
  • I'm seriously lacking in the social skills department (Striking up conversations with women, asking someone on a first date, etc)

 

 

The Ugly

 

  • I have a face only a mother can love
  • I need to drop about 80 lbs before women would even consider going out with me

 

You have a genius IQ but you haven't figured out that you can get surgery to get rid of your extra weight and that there are extemely skilled plastic surgeons that can give you the face you want?

 

I'm seriously lacking in the social skills department (Striking up conversations with women, asking someone on a first date, etc)

 

Here's the truth.

 

Dude looks good? He gets laid. He can be retarded, still has sex thrown at him by women of high quality. So, work on that, yes?

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