tonisty Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 I have a guy at work who has been flirting with me like crazy, showering me with attention calling me amazingly amazing. Here's the thing, he works out of a different location than I do and we only talk on the phone or video conferenceing. He seems totally into me , has said he will come visit (yes less than an hour away) But.......he told me that I can contact him whenever I want....."random drunk text......whatever". So I have.....I am beginning to think that I am pushing him away by doing that and his interest is decreasing. Did I totally blow it? Is it too late or do I still stand a chance if I back off?
Buns Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 How are you ever going to start a relationship with this guy, if everytime you get close, he pulls away, and to get him to come back you have to back off? Seems a bit complicated to me:( Maybe he's just enjoying the thrill of the chase? It sounds a bit fishy to me, are you 1000000% sure that he's single? Because to me, it sounds like he's up for a flirt, but panics when you want me, because he doesn't actually want anything to happen....
Author tonisty Posted November 22, 2012 Author Posted November 22, 2012 I am a beautiful and confident girl and have been asked out by others but for some reason I cant seem to get this guy out of my head!! But you're right, no I am not 100 percent sure he is single, and you are saying exactly what I was thinking but too afraid to admit to myself thank you:)
Buns Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I am a beautiful and confident girl and have been asked out by others but for some reason I cant seem to get this guy out of my head!! But you're right, no I am not 100 percent sure he is single, and you are saying exactly what I was thinking but too afraid to admit to myself thank you:) Great attitude! Try dating some other guys, one of them will make you forget this guy
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