Bye. I have to go away from this place. I wanted you to know that it's over though.

[moimeme]

Well, you need to know what the 'this' that she thinks she can't do is. Is it the distance? Is it the trying to maintain a relationship for so long as well as the distance?

 

You can't fix a problem until you know exactly what the problem is - or do you?

[Papillon]

Hey, if there's one thing I've learnt from LS, is that we're all f*cked up inside, in one small way or another. Maybe a cynical person would compare it to a leper colony, but I like to think of it as the local M.O.T.H. - we're all fragile human beings, and we've been through the trenches. There's a spririt of brotherhood here. Ok, ok. Sisterhood, too. Ok, dammit. Siblinghood! That's why we stick around. LS is special because most people here don't try and pretend how great they are - being here is a celebration of our screwed-up-ness. Of our hard-earned normality.

 

So Dyer...you wanna tell us you're not normal? Eh? .

 

You'll be ok. We know you will.

[quankanne]

Love in itself is enough, no matter when or how it arrives

 

[color=red]AMEN![/color]

 

I realize it's confusing right now, dyer, but I'm actually pretty happy about what you've shared: y'all are communicating! and that's no small thing, keeping/having an open line of communication. Keep working on that, and you'll find the answers you seek -- it's only when two people stop talking (or writing or IMing or texting) that the situation starts growing bleak, IMHO. If she's talking to you, there's cause for hope ...

[littleflowerpot]

dyer, i almost pm'd you but then i realized you don't even know me. and as you said, probably nothing i could say would make you feel any better right now. but i wanted to tell you this because it's true: if you leave i will feel a bit sadder (and i'm already really REALLY f*cking sad) because you are one of my favorite people here. you are articulate, intelligent, rational and very compassionate. it would make me feel a tiny bit better when i'd read some of your replies. so you touched one person that maybe you hadn't considered (hell, let's be realistic - you probably didn't know i existed, right?). anyway, i'll miss ya. i really will.

[Cynderella's lost it]

Dyermaker, I knew I could gain knowledge from you just by the name. I too am a true Zepp fan and their music and lyrics are so powerful, however (so far) not powerful enough to win back the love of your (& my) life!

 

YOU are the reason that I registered on this site today. I've spent a lot of time reading your postings and I sincerely hope that you continue posting.

 

I am desperately trying to regain the affection and love of the man I have spent the last 4 years with. Read my entry called "Can he fall back in love?", that's my story in a nut shell. I am petrified that I will never love this way again. When you've been in a deep, passionate, love when souls connect, it is so different that just a relationship. I've had my share of relationships, having been engaged 3 times and married twice. I've never felt this overwhelming desire to be with someone before.

 

Please respond, I really think you are someone who knows what I'm going through.

 

"Yours is the clock, mine is the hand that holds time"