zt89 Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Hey guys, It has only been two days since our breakup. Long story short, she told me 2 weeks ago we need to spend some time apart so we can find ourselves again to be better for each other. I found out Monday that she is already sleeping with another guy, which absolutely crushed me because I love her. After finding this out I told her that I can't talk to her because I still have romantic feelings and clearly she doesn't. I thought I made this really clear, but today, two days after, I got a text message from her. She is going home over Christmas break and wont be able to take care of our animal. She asked if I still want to watch after the animal while she is at home for Christmas break, but if i don't she understands, but needs to know in order to make arrangements. WHAT ?!?!?!? I honestly don't know what to do because even if i respond with a NO, it will be an opener to a conversation I'm not ready to have. At the same time I want to make sure the animal is taken care of. Any suggestions would be greatly welcomed. Thank you.
veggirl Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Wow she slept with someone the day you broke up? Ack. If you are cool with watching the pet just write back "I can watch it just email me the info" and don't respond to ANYTHING other than what is necessary communication for watching the pet. If you don't wanna watch it just say sorry I can't. Then don't respond to anything. The only way it'll lead to conversation is if YOU let it.
Chi townD Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Personally, I would just text "no". If you watch the pet. You're gonna have to see her to pick it up or drop it off. She's be texting you to see if the pet is "okay" while she's away. Then, you'll have to see her again to exchange the pet when she returns. Not my idea of NC.
jamielee Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Wow she slept with someone the day you broke up? Ack. If you are cool with watching the pet just write back "I can watch it just email me the info" and don't respond to ANYTHING other than what is necessary communication for watching the pet. If you don't wanna watch it just say sorry I can't. Then don't respond to anything. The only way it'll lead to conversation is if YOU let it. itz not easy when you respond once thats were it all start my boyfriend left me for another woman i dont call or text him but the moment he text then that when the crying and begging starts.
justin8 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 She's using you. Don't even bother replying. Trust me, I've been there.
Author zt89 Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 I thought the hard part would be ME not contacting her after this. Boy was I wrong. I had some things of hers still she needed back so I put them on her porch and left them before I went to work. Just got a text telling me that was disgustingly rude and I need to grow the **** up. These messages really dot help the healing process. I feel she is trying to bait me ito seeing her because next she said she still has a few of my things but guesses I don't want them. About to go crazy, why cheat on me then continue to make me miserable while I'm trying to heal
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