Kelly15 Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 I need some advice and just thoughts on this Please share your opinions with me. This long ... I've been knowing this guy 7yrs and dating on and off 6 yrs. It started , I met him at his work (bartending) and he instantly was smitten with me, thought I was the most beautful girl he had ever seen. We became friends fast as he was so polite and sweet. Outgoing. I didnt date him as he wasnt my type. Balding, blonde and just not my type at all. As the year went by, I fell hard for him. We starting dating and I was everything to him. After about 6 mos he broke up with me for no reason, he came back a month later begging back. I forgave him. I became insecure after that and probably was still immature as he was my second boyfriend I ever had. We broke up again, this time I felt really bitter and stayed apart for 8 mos. Got drunk one night and starting seeing each other again but he broke up with me 5 mos later , started dating some sleazy girl which didnt work. And him and i started hooking up which no relationship, I got fed up and said relationship or nothing. He said he loved me and wanted to be with me. We got along perfect but his hours are different from mine and I would stay up all night with him but never stayed over do to I have school and a job which he only works 3 days a week. So he used that as an excuse to break up with along with the fact he was really depressed and has commitment issues and amitted he pushes me away if i get too close. Well he came back after some therapy saying he missed me and was inlove with me always been and can't stay away for nothing. And was the only positive thing in his life, the only person who ever really loved him and that we were meant to be together because fate always puts us together. I gave him one last chance as he seemed more grown up. As our relationship went on he became depressed again and would act like he's 20. He's 32. Doing drugs with his co workers, he knows I hate that. Making me low priority. I couldnt push this issue because i never told my mom i was dating him again because she hates him and i wanted to wait and see if he could stick around a year before telling her. So i guess that was partly my wrong too. anyway, some girl just started at his work and I was no longer invited out that night as she was going and then he told he had lunch plans with her but it was nothing but friendly to read his texts, i did and they were very flirty so when i told him we should part . he begged no and said he wouldnt go and he loved and would make things better. Two days later we broke up as he wants to see this girl and now is seeing her. He dumped me in a bar while he was drunk and crying. I dont want to call him but feel so hurt and everything left unsaid. I know he's very attracted to me, did he just use me? And I know I can do better, I'm smart, a model and have a good job too but I just feel so low. How could he say he loved me one day and the next be going out with someone? How do I get over this? 7YRS JUST SEEMS SO LONG TO JUST STOP TALKING TO YOUR BEST FRIEND:( PS sorry about poor spelling and english, I'm crying as I write this
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