cardi2 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Hi, so I have been reading threads here for a while but only now writing one. I met a guy when I was out one night, we got on really well, exchanged numbers and he text me the next day. Turned out he doesnt live anywhere near me and was flying back home the next day. We constantly texted/skyped/rang each other and he came back a month later and we had out first date. Then the following month I went to visit him for a week. Everything was great and we have so much fun. He visited the following month and I visited him the month after. Im just home after that trip and im wondering what to do. We had a talk and basically he says he cant commit to me because of the distance, he had a long distance relationship before and he says it was too hard and eventually they broke up. He is well over this girl but maybe out situation would be different. He says he still wants to see me and keep visiting each other. He says he likes me a lot and that he likes being around me but the distance is not going to change for the forseeable future. He said he doesnt want to stop me from meeting someone closer to home. Yet we still text everyday and skype every week. Is it that he us using the distance as an excuse so that he doesnt have to commit? I dont really know what to think anymore and should I just end it now....whatever "it" is.
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