johna5150 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I approach women I am attracted to all the time but sometime feel like it is not the right setting and it makes them woman uncomfortable. Do you guys think there are right or wrong places to approach a girl you think is hot?
ErosOcean Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I approach women I am attracted to all the time but sometime feel like it is not the right setting and it makes them woman uncomfortable. Do you guys think there are right or wrong places to approach a girl you think is hot? Yes, you should never approach a hot girl in a bathroom stall. Somehow they think it's weird. Joking. Anyway, most settings should be okay like the stores, malls, on the street, etc. It's only uncomfortable because you are making it so. Your approach is based on neediness because you think she is hot and so you feel like you need to talk to her. Then you become nervous because you are thinking she is hot. The mind is tricky. Just be nonchalant about it. Talk to her as if you talk to hot girls all the time.
plainjane79 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I think anywhere is fine, as long as you don't approach in creepy fashion, and you have something worthwhile to say. I've had guys approach me in parks and on the subway, making an intelligent comment on a book I was reading or a band whose show I was watching. Maybe I'm rare but I gave them my number after chatting a bit because they seemed coherent and sane. However I've had guys approach me and say inappropriate things about my body, or seem disheveled and/or high on drugs. Those guys could meet me at church and I'd probably not give them my number.
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