gabriel345 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I don't know what to do anymore. I'm literally about to call him and get done once in for all. Tell me straight up what the hell is on his mind?! He dumps me after years of relationship. one month of no contact. Then, says he doesn't want to be in one with me but he loves me and misses me. Gives me crumbs as excuses for no letting me go. I tell him exactly what he asks, what I'm looking for and he asks me out. Kisses me and keeps saying I miss you. Then contacts me through ****ty fb to hardly say hi and what I'm doing. Nothing else!! He knows I wont be here for almost 6 days!! People keep telling me that I shouldn't ask him anything but what the hell?? He knows what I wanted and asks me out and does that. I can't move on if I'm waiting, honestly, can't do it. I want to know but if he feels pressured he'll pull away! So WHAT then?!! I hate these mental games!
itsmyfault Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Seriously, What will be, Will be. You cannot force him to start seeing you again. From what you have said, He is basically trying to let you down softly. Or he is making sure you are still his for the taking. The mind games WILL stop, So long as you stop playing them.
Author gabriel345 Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Yes! I want to stop this. I want to know straight up what ever it is and that's that. But in this social bull... that's not allowed either. My friends keep telling me just to let it go like that, to let it flow and I'm truly not comfortable with that. I mean what the hell, seriously? I want to know if I'm waiting for something or am I free to go, I am interested in taking it slow but come on, he wants to insinuate this or let me down easy, that's just cruel. He needs to tell me straight, that's what I need.
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