charlietheginger Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 average guy makes profile uses Pictures from a male models profile States income as $100,000+ a yr.... Owns home nice cars Pics included Claims in chat he just moved here for business Yada yada The average guy waits for emails... average guy chats it up flirts.... Making arrangements to meet Women at bars coffee shops Restaurants.. calling and chatting as if he were on his way To the restaurant the day to meet... women arrive.... Man does a no show shuts off phone... Sometime guy watches from a near location To see what the woman does or how she acted I just talked to guy that claims to do this... As she leaves he turns on his phone calls her Says he was just in a car accident and it was a small bump he is exchanging info will be there in 5minutes She waits .... 10min go by... She eventually leaves..... He does this over and over on all the websites In revenge becuase he was stood up on a date by A women... Has any women experience this kinda scenario...
TigerCub Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 That guy is very ****ed up and needs to get serious/intensive therapy. What's your opinion about this sort of thing? Did you agree with the guy you talked to (who does this) and encourage him or did you point out that its kinda messed up? 5
yessy21 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 HAHAHHAHA i love this! Its a good strategy if you had two profiles. one of the average and one of the model. then you both go for the same women. Or if you casually walk in and start talking to her to catch her at a vulnerable time. when her confidence is low for being stood up. 1
Author charlietheginger Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 No nether...no judgement on my half he told me he video taped a few from his car... He showed me one on his phone..... Its the women that originally stood him up... He created a profile to whoow her over Lots of chat talk sent flowers to her work... After 2weeks he made reservations at a highend restaurant Filmed her going in and filmed her leaving mad confused Upset... he text her saying now you know how it feels to Be stoodup bitch.... Deleted his profile changed his number... Now he does it over and over... One chick he called her and said im sorry i drove by Saw you and you look 30lbs bigger then your profile Pics..... I have mixes emotions i think its wrong he keeps doing it But not wrong he did it to the one that stood him up... He says so far he has stood up about 15 women He justified it by saying they are all superficial Seeking money and looks and they get.what they deserve
TigerCub Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Thanks for explaining further... hehe, he's insane! It's sad that a few bad experiences with women have turned him into a nut job. Its funny that he actually goes to these lengths (sending flowers, changing phone numbers, spending so many hours trying to "connect" and woo someone) - just to stand them up later. He's putting in waaaaaaaaaay more effort and money and investment into this to stand them up than the one girl did to stand him up before. That kinda makes him an idiot to boot. And just so he can **** up some other women that he's assuming things about (because the 1 girl screwed him over) that's really sad... He needs help. and the worst part is - his actions could create man haters (if they took it as badly as his stand up was taken by him) and then they will in turn shoot other guys down (who started off as nice guys) or treat them badly (like he treated them) - he's really doing his part to screw both women and men over with this. 5
ascendotum Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 The woman who dates this guy is going to have to deal with issues. For the first time he did it out of revenge, its a bit petty but at the same time I believe in revenge, so I get it. From then on though, giving the comeuppance to a bunch of innocent women is just immature prank...and why the video, so he can watch their disappointed faces over & over. I knew a wanker (guy) who said he did this to guys just for kicks. I think he chose men because it was so much easier to get them all worked up and expecting sex on the first meet so the greater the 'pie in the face' effect. He got some to travel 100s of miles. lol
veggirl Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Wow what kind of loser has time to do all that? What purpose does it serve? I think your "friend" needs to get a life. 5
veggirl Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 The woman who dates this guy is going to have to deal with issues. For the first time he did it out of revenge, its a bit petty but at the same time I believe in revenge, so I get it. From then on though, giving the comeuppance to a bunch of innocent women is just immature prank...and why the video, so he can watch their disappointed faces over & over. I knew a wanker (guy) who said he did this to guys just for kicks. I think he chose men because it was so much easier to get them all worked up and expecting sex on the first meet so the greater the 'pie in the face' effect. He got some to travel 100s of miles. lol Revenge? Who is he getting revenge on? Women in general? 1
KathyM Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 What a nutjob. I feel sorry for the women that he actually does end up dating if he goes overboard like this over one time of being stood up. 3
rocketman122 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 haha hilarious! as much as I'd love to do it to some women who really deserve it (not because they stood me up though-for playing too many games), I wouldnt have the nerve to do something like this because I have high moral values and dont think its fair. it would sit heavy on my conscience. I can understand why many men are so mad at women. Ive seen it all too much when I was OLD. some really deserve it though. 1
serial muse Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 haha hilarious! as much as I'd love to do it to some women who really deserve it (not because they stood me up though-for playing too many games), I wouldnt have the nerve to do something like this because I have high moral values and dont think its fair. it would sit heavy on my conscience. I can understand why many men are so mad at women. Ive seen it all too much when I was OLD. some really deserve it though. And yet the ones that don't will become bitter and will then pay it forward in turn. So all this guy has really done is perpetuated the pain further. Hooray. This guy is a complete ass. 6
plainjane79 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 He's not even an ass. He's mentally unstable and kind of pathetic. If a guy I had never even met did that to me, I'd laugh it off, feel kind of bad for a guy who has to resort to such antics, and have a great online dating horror story to tell at parties. Besides, any woman who believes a male model making $100K needs a dating site to find dates is kind of naive, IMHO. I would suspect that this person was lying from the beginning. 5
Author charlietheginger Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 His goal is not to make women bitter But make women relize men with model Looks making 100k a yr are gonna treat them Like dirt.... So buy making this profile he stands the women Up to show them how the guys that are 9 10s will walk on them however they feel like it... Hence these women being stood up will Walk away hating hott rich guys... The women will be forced to make a choice settle For guys that are 7~8s infear the guys that are 9~10s with treat them as disposable objects... The strategy although brutal often explains Why you see hott women with average looking guys Girl gets tired of chasing the hott guys figure out Its much work and goes with the eazier path A average guy
plainjane79 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 His goal is not to make women bitter But make women relize men with model Looks making 100k a yr are gonna treat them Like dirt.... So buy making this profile he stands the women Up to show them how the guys that are 9 10s will walk on them however they feel like it... Hence these women being stood up will Walk away hating hott rich guys... The women will be forced to make a choice settle For guys that are 7~8s infear the guys that are 9~10s with treat them as disposable objects... The strategy although brutal often explains Why you see hott women with average looking guys Girl gets tired of chasing the hott guys figure out Its much work and goes with the eazier path A average guy If a woman decides to swear off hot guys because one shady dude from OLD claiming to be a rich male model stands her up, she's got other major issues. If 10 rich male models in a row treat her like crap, maybe. But this guy isn't teaching anyone anything. He's just wasting his own time being a tool. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I have done OLD extensively: I have never been stood up and I have never stood up anyone. I admit that women who stand people up are lame. 3
Author charlietheginger Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 If a woman decides to swear off hot guys because one shady dude from OLD claiming to be a rich male model stands her up, she's got other major issues. If 10 rich male models in a row treat her like crap, maybe. But this guy isn't teaching anyone anything. He's just wasting his own time being a tool. Doubtfull most women when fail usually avoid more Failure... Every women wants to succeed failure such As rejection takes its toll slowly eating away at Womens selfesteem... Failure after failure reprograms the brain to Stop doing the failure... The hardwired female brain then explores new Options such as dating 7~8s for security Reasons....
veggirl Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Oh so he's not doing it to be an a-hole he is doing it to educate all us dumb women. OMG what a generous soul! 5
Janesays Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 First of all, $100,000 a year isn't 'rich.' I make a bit more than that and I'm not exactly bathing in $100 bills over here. Second of all, I know plenty of 'hot' guys who make a decent living who treat women like queens. So I hate to say it, but if a guy like that did what you described, I wouldn't think anything more than HE was a jerk. I wouldn't generalize his behavior to ALL 'hot, well off' guys because my personal experience says his behavior ISN'T the norm. Further, considering this little 'prank' is being performed by an 'average guy,' the only thing it REALLY proves if that women should avoid THEM at all costs. Apparently, average guys are straight up insane. 4
dasein Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I have done OLD extensively: I have never been stood up and I have never stood up anyone. I admit that women who stand people up are lame. Same, over 50 dates from OLD, no standups on either end. I cancelled a few first dates upon deciding to stick with a certain option, and had a few cancel on me for the same reason. Never stood up though. I applaud the guy who got back at a few women who stood him up in this way, but only if they were the same women who stood him up, not just random women. If he goes around doing it over and over though, he needs to find better ways to spend his time. 3
TigerCub Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I call extreme BULLS**T on his reason to "educate" women. Why? you ask Because that sure as **** doesn't explain the videos and the weirdo stalker messed up nut job actions of him watching these women's reactions as they realize they got stood up. Or is he taking these videos as a teaching tool he will be showing his students when he opens up his own "Why You Should Avoid Hot guys" Dating School 4
rocketman122 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 (edited) First of all, $100,000 a year isn't 'rich.' I make a bit more than that and I'm not exactly bathing in $100 bills over here. people will never be happy and always will be greedy. if you made amillion dollars you'd still wouldnt be happy. 100k a year is a lot of money. its way above an average salary. if you dont know how to manage your money thats something else. maybe youre a materialistic person. 100k is a lot of money. its what top end doctors make over here and everything is twice as expensive here with 122% taxes on a lot of things. I wish on myself and others $100k. @Leisureguy2020 yes, many women deserve it. I agree. some women need to be taken down a few notches. I learned a lot when I was OLD. I came in naive and now Im able to discern crap when I see it. Edited November 21, 2012 by rocketman122
Janesays Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 First of all, $100,000 a year isn't 'rich.' I make a bit more than that and I'm not exactly bathing in $100 bills over here. people will never be happy and always will be greedy. if you made amillion dollars you'd still wouldnt be happy. 100k a year is a lot of money. its way above an average salary. if you dont know how to manage your money thats something else. maybe youre a materialistic person. 100k is a lot of money. its what top end doctors make over here and everything is twice as expensive here with 122% taxes on a lot of things. I wish on myself and others $100k. @Leisureguy2020 yes, many women deserve it. I agree. some women need to be taken down a few notches. I learned a lot when I was OLD. I came in naive and now Im able to discern crap when I see it. Oh yes. I'm totally materialistic. With my single pair of $20 shoes, my used Honda, and my total lack of 'toys.' I haven't got my hair cut in well over a year, never had Mani/pedi day, and still own and regularly wear clothes I had since high school. You are soooo right. I am SUCH a spend thrift. 2
rocketman122 Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 I dont believe what you say for a millisecond. for a millisecond. 100k ..pff..please. down play it all you want. its WAY (probably twice as much) above an average salary and if you cant manage your money, you must be doing something wrong. only executives drive honda civics here (a new one costs 35k). my dad made 50k a year (lived in NY) and was going on trips, always drove a new car, lived in a fancy apartment payed a lot of money for health insurance. bought presents for people and you cant get along with twice that. down play all you want. I know what 100k will buy..and if youre from the US, then alot. an average salary here is $1750 a month. things cost twice as much as the US. typical american who complains nothing is ever good. like I said, if you had a million dollar salary, you'd still complain. people who bitch will always bitch.
Imajerk17 Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Oh yes. I'm totally materialistic. With my single pair of $20 shoes, my used Honda, and my total lack of 'toys.' I haven't got my hair cut in well over a year, never had Mani/pedi day, and still own and regularly wear clothes I had since high school. You are soooo right. I am SUCH a spend thrift. Yeah but your car has air-conditioning though huh. Princess.... Next thing you're going to admit that you got the nicer sound system too. GOTCHA
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