9Lives Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 He is so stupid. He sent me and another chic a picture which lead to the other wan asking me who am I. I told her Im his girlfriend and she told me he tried to talk to her over the weekend and took her to breakfast. He tried to lie about it but I knew she was telling the truth. I broke up with him yesterday I know I did the right thing but its hard because we were having a great relationship and I was happy. I was a part of his family and we were all getting close and getting along. I feel bad about the whole thing. I just don't feel like I will be able to trust him now. Truth is I wish we could work it out but I needed to break up with him because I don't want him to think he can cheat and I'm just going to let it slide easily.is that wrong of me? I was happy with this man but cheating is a dealbreaker. I just want him to stop or move on.
KatZee Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Good for you for breaking up with him immediately. My ex cheated on me and I stayed because I loved him. Worst mistake I ever made. Don't make the same one. Cheaters won't change overnight and if you took him back he'd realize he had no consequences to his actions and he'd try to do it again. I get the family thing. I was heavily entwined with my ex's family. His niece's and nephew's would call me "Aunt" and his father loved me, his grandmother loved me, I had dinner with her every single week without my bf at the time. That was the worst for me, suddenly being on the outside of the family. It'll get better with time.
Author 9Lives Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Good for you for breaking up with him immediately. My ex cheated on me and I stayed because I loved him. Worst mistake I ever made. Don't make the same one. Cheaters won't change overnight and if you took him back he'd realize he had no consequences to his actions and he'd try to do it again. I get the family thing. I was heavily entwined with my ex's family. His niece's and nephew's would call me "Aunt" and his father loved me, his grandmother loved me, I had dinner with her every single week without my bf at the time. That was the worst for me, suddenly being on the outside of the family. It'll get better with time. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU...I needed to hear this Katie. This is not easy but I know I can't tolerate this behavior. He will not respect me in the long run. I need peace and honesty in my life and I will not have peace cause I will be wondering what he is doing or is he lying about what he doing. We need to be upfront or we need to move on. I will miss his family but I have to let go anyway. I wish this didn't happen but it's here. Thank you for sharing your story.
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