weddersinnes Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I hope this is the appropriate section of the forums for this. My boyfriend dumped me almost a month ago because I didn't like him talking to his ex. That's all over and done with; I have not spoken to or heard from him since the breakup and I accept that I will probably never see him again. That's not where my issue lies. This is my problem: I just found out that his ex before me, the one he wouldn't stop talking to, used to be a friend of a friend of my roommate. My roommate knows this girl and says she hated her. Says the girl was a real bitch. My ex's brother has also said this to me, and my ex's best friend has said the same thing. So the general consensus is this girl is a really ****ty person that no one seems to like. Keep in mind, I never even asked about this stuff, this is just info these three different people have volunteered to me on three different occasions. What I cannot understand is HOW can someone like a girl like that enough to date her for years, and then break up with a current girlfriend because he doesn't want to get her out of his life?? How can he like someone like that!!! People everywhere know she is a bad person and they don't want anything to do with her. How does he not know it? How can he like her?! How do ****ty people keep getting dates!!! I was very, very good to him. I know I was, and people even said how nice we were together. He dumped me because I asked him to stop talking to his ex, and apparently this ex is a horrible person. I knew she wasn't normal, hence me not liking the communication going on between them, but I didn't really know her so I couldn't say. My roommate telling me this now just confirmed it. This isn't the first time I have seen something like this happen. Good people staying with really awful people. I just don't understand. Does anyone have any opinion on why this happens?
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