Gkracing5 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Hi guys i have a situation i need some advice with i was with my partner for 6 years we were partners in life we opend up a business together witch i funded it was her dream we had a concrete relationship well i thought so after we opened up the shop up she was a bit funny distant i approached her she was tired i felt inside my stomach something wasnt right i seen her with another guy but i cldnt beleive in my heart she would cheat on me on her bday she took her present all smilein but i knew things wernt right the day after she said to me i carnt be with you i dont love you it was like you stuck a knife inside me hurt so much i cried she cried i gave her space i felt used as she only waited to lock me in the business cos she couldnt get it herself i had a holiday planed in july august to maldives witch i bought her for her bday i still took her but her answer was we see if things change but it may not happen i found out while we were away she had been stayin at this guys house through emails shes been seen him for a while and he cldnt wait to see her she deneid it and said he had a crush but she still stayed at his house that hurt even deeper i was amicable i told her lets put all this behind us and start again her answer i dont love you anymore things change people change its since been 5 mnths in total and shes still got the business i left it to her as i didnt want to close it because it would leave her jobless i still love her alot the last two weeks ive startd with no contact at all she still hasnt even said a word to me couldnt care less its the first xmas coming up with out me she still has all the photos in her room of me on her facebook her house inside i renavated it all her clothes her car i built her up from nothing and gave her a start how does she ignore me not think of me is it normal will she come back i even went to her freinds get them to talk to her she got mad saying i involved everybody what do i do im so hurt inside its hard for me to move on she says one day if i ever miss u ill let you know but move on with ur life like she is can one guy older with no money come and destroy my relationship so fast will she ever come back we spent along time together you dont forget so fast
Renard99 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but, if I were you I'd carry on with your life assuming that she will never come back. Even if she does come back you will want to be healed by the time she does, and to heal, you need to be happy and comfortable with being on your own.
Author Gkracing5 Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 The way she went about the whole thing hurts alot you know i havnt said a word to her just ignored her and let her go it makes me angry to know shes with someone else but i carnt blame the guy its not his fault she wanted this
Chi townD Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 If you're part owner of the businees then you might want to have her buy you out or sell off the business and divide the assets 50/50. Sorry, you don't owe her anything and if she bankrupts the business because she isn't doing what she needs to be doing, then it's on you too. Dude, she used you to get what she wanted. You gave her a leg up and a fresh start. Now, that she got what she wanted, she kicked you to the curb for something (or someone) else that she wanted. Take it back and get out. Heal and move on.
Author Gkracing5 Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Ive tried but the issues are she is not a suitable tenant for the lease in her own name ive tried to get her to buy me out but she carnt afford it i dont know what else to do but ignore her shes just a liar and very deceitful if she was honest ide be more fair but the new guy shes seeing is alot older do you guy beleive with past experiance she can forget 6 years so fast
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