BrocificOcean Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 My current girlfriend and I have only 'officially' together for about a month, but have been dating/hooking up for the previous four months. She is a senior in college and I just graduated myself last semester, so we are very close in age. I've had one girlfriend in college, she's had one boyfriend in college. Other than that, we are both very new to relationships -- not because we couldn't find someone, but we are both the same person in that we enjoyed being single until we met one another. I don't want to bore you with specific details, but I know I'm falling for this girl... and fast. Before I know it, I could wake up one day and truly know I am in love with her. Problem is, I don't know the right time to say it when it happens. I don't know how these conversations work because I have never been in love. What happens if I fall in love, tell her, and the feelings are not returned at that point. Where does that leave us? Does it just become awkward?
RogerWallace111 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 wait and tell her when you can feel that she's in love with you too. and if youre intuition is wrong, oh well, you did your best. basically saying, don't just break it to her like it's some announcement you need to get off your chest. wait till a moment when you two are gettin all sweet, and she's looking at you with that look of adoration .....
Sameold Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 for me and my ex we were just about to go out somewhere, I was around her house and messing about with her upstairs, I tackled her on to the bed and just said I love you....it felt like most natural thing in the world. 3.5 years later she bins it all though so trust me when I say it doesn't mean that much anymore.
Million.to.1 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 3.5 years later she bins it all though so trust me when I say it doesn't mean that much anymore. Geeze Sameold! Way to bring a positive post down. OP... there are no rules. It just will feel right in a moment, so don't hold back when it comes. Just be genuine and don't be scared of it not being reciprocated immediately. Just state how you feel. Don't say it with an expectation of a response. Just tell her. ....but most likely is that she will say it right back at cha.
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