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I am the weirdest person alive I think. I cannot begin any type of relationship or even just talking without immediately envisioning if our children will be cute or not. I go from like first date to thinking (I want to bold that because I NEVER EVER mention this to the guys I am talking to or dating, these are just my private personal thoughts) "omg our baby would be beautiful" or "omg I wonder what kind of dad he will be" and I envision us all going to the grocery store as a family with our little baby carrier and how cute it will be. Am I the only person who does this?? Not going to lie I definitely looked at the Best Buy guy that I posted about and I was like "he would make really cute babies!" then he turned out to be a possible scammer :/ God hates me.

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You could say you want a baby, while wearing a t-shirt that says I Heart Babies, while holding an actual baby, and I wouldn't for a second be thinking babies.

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You could say you want a baby, while wearing a t-shirt that says I Heart Babies, while holding an actual baby, and I wouldn't for a second be thinking babies.

 

I would never be blatantly obvious about it unless I was dating the guy. My ex and I talked about babies (I didn't even bring it up first) he would just make jokes about when we can start trying and stuff :D it was perfect!

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I would never be blatantly obvious about it unless I was dating the guy. My ex and I talked about babies (I didn't even bring it up first) he would just make jokes about when we can start trying and stuff :D it was perfect!

 

You're younger than me. I'm not talking babies until mid 30s, at least.

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You're younger than me. I'm not talking babies until mid 30s, at least.

 

How old are you?? You are also a man, you have unlimited sperm for the rest of your life :D

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How old are you?? You are also a man, you have unlimited sperm for the rest of your life :D

 

I'm 25 years old.

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I'm 25 years old.

 

Aww you're young!

I turn 22 in December and I am in a total state of panic about it.

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No.

 

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Actually I have thought about kids a couple times - but not with anyone I've met so far :lmao:. That would be insane :D.

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Not about babies, no, just where they come out.

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Sure, it's crossed my mind a few times ... whether or not they'd make son, handsome sons. :)

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Men are thinking about what you would look like naked, way before they are thinking of having babies with you.

 

When it comes to babies, men are typically looking for a set of qualities too, at least from my perspective...to determine of whether you'd make a good mother or not, and if you even want to become one.

 

So in that regard, some women strike that baby making desire while others do not at all and it's definitely not just about looks, at least for me because you never know what your kids will really look like anyway IMO.

 

You'll think like every other retarded parent with their kids, they're the most beautiful babies in the world! ;) well hopefully.

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No, the thought of babies never crosses my mind.

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I am the weirdest person alive I think. I cannot begin any type of relationship or even just talking without immediately envisioning if our children will be cute or not. I go from like first date to thinking (I want to bold that because I NEVER EVER mention this to the guys I am talking to or dating, these are just my private personal thoughts) "omg our baby would be beautiful" or "omg I wonder what kind of dad he will be" and I envision us all going to the grocery store as a family with our little baby carrier and how cute it will be. Am I the only person who does this?? Not going to lie I definitely looked at the Best Buy guy that I posted about and I was like "he would make really cute babies!" then he turned out to be a possible scammer :/ God hates me.

 

Are you trying to attract men, or scare them off?

 

FYI if Target sold vasectomies, I'd run right out and get one.

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Never............

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Normally I don't. I don't want kids and neither does my BF, but he is so damned gorgeous and otherwise amazing (and he works with kids) that I couldn't help but briefly wonder what any child of ours would look and be like.

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I am the weirdest person alive I think. I cannot begin any type of relationship or even just talking without immediately envisioning if our children will be cute or not. I go from like first date to thinking (I want to bold that because I NEVER EVER mention this to the guys I am talking to or dating, these are just my private personal thoughts) "omg our baby would be beautiful" or "omg I wonder what kind of dad he will be" and I envision us all going to the grocery store as a family with our little baby carrier and how cute it will be. Am I the only person who does this?? Not going to lie I definitely looked at the Best Buy guy that I posted about and I was like "he would make really cute babies!" then he turned out to be a possible scammer :/ God hates me.

 

If you're weird, I'm crazy. I do this a lot. I will see a random guy on the train, and think he's cute--all the while I'm planning our future in my head. :D So, you're not alone.

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HELL NO.. is my first thought to this thread topic!

 

But I do have my own weird thoughts about things!

 

It is not that creepy at all, it is only creepy when you act like you WANT his babies after the fist date...:sick:

 

Telling guys you have thought about what your babies would look like would obviously also make them run.

 

You know that though, it is just a funny thought, to think of how you would scare a guy by saying it!

 

What would be more alarming, is if a guy would not be phased by it! haha.

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i think about it with a girlfriend but not just with any potential romantic interest.

 

it's fine that you do though. cute actually. but if youre 22 don't rush into that **** give it a good 6-12 years

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When I am attracted to a guy, I think about what sex would be like. I also try to gauge from his body language/words how into me he is.

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I don't think about what my babies would look like when I meet random guys, but when I'm actually in a relationship with someone I do, and we usually discuss it.

 

I knew my ex ex and I would have cute children because he has good features, thick, wavy dark hair, and big blue eyes. He also has a daughter who's gorgeous.

 

My most recent ex was very attractive, but his brother was very unattractive, so I used to worry about there being some bad genes in his family.

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Standard operating procedure for me is to present potential dates, upon initial approach, with a composite sketch (done by me) of what our offspring will look like.

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They don't stay babies forever. They grow up to become obnoxious rug rats and juvenile delinquents. :)

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If I am looking at a biological female as a possible mate then yes.

 

In fact there is a website you can use to compute what a baby you might have would look like. What will my baby look like? Morph Faces and Celebrities Online For Free - MorphThing.com

 

I know of this website because I used it recently. I took a couple pictures from each of us and combined them, then combined those results to get a picture of what a son and daughter would look like. The result was a little disconcerting. The kids would be cute but one of the results seemed to be smiling when neither of the input pictures were smiling. :confused:

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Like I've said before, all babies look like Winston Churchill. Sorry.

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