hidden.hazard Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 My partner and I have been dating for almost 6 months now, we were best friends before this, so they know about all my past relationships, and everyone I'd kissed. We went to one of their friends parties, and we were late, so everyone was giving us free drinks and shots to catch up to them, and I ended up drinking more than I ever have before. I have no memory of the second half of the night, I woke up in the morning back at home in bed, and was extremely confused. I literally have nothing past a certain point. Apparently I kissed someone else once, it was in front of everyone there, I didn't sneak off to do it. I have never cheated on anyone before in my life. My partner has forgiven me, and believes that I can't remember, but it still come up occasionally. How bad is this on a scale of things? I love them, and I can't believe it happened.
dasein Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Welcome to the forum. Not a great big deal, you got a mulligan, probably won't get another, so watch the drinking. There's never any need to "catch up" and shots are for kids and alcoholics. Don't be either.
Sameold Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 it isn't great and you may have made your partner look like a fool. If you've genuinely been given another shot make sure you behave yourself and you are going to be in the dog house for some time.
IT Geek Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Being drunk is the most overused excuse for crossing the line with someone who is not their SO. It's a piss ant excuse for someone who had desires for someone other than their SO. Consider yourself lucky he or she has forgiven you.
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