Author verhrzn Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 That's not fat and we both know it. You just love to get attention and sympathy that you don't deserve here. You are kind of like somedude, except you're smarter and play twisted games. .... Um, no, I don't know it. Maybe it's because measurements are really difficult to translate to visuals, but.... yeah my body is fat. Here, I'll be extra self-humiliating and send you a PM with a picture, so maybe we can just cut right through the BS.
ThaWholigan Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I'll reiterate my first post just to avoid any cluster debates - the best thing for (not so) fat, (not very) ugly girls to do would be to have faith. Simple. It might be difficult, even if you think you suck, but it's the best way forward. We'll all be here to prop up if/when things f*ck-up, but eventually you will succeed. Hopefully the other person will too.
Author verhrzn Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 I'll reiterate my first post just to avoid any cluster debates - the best thing for (not so) fat, (not very) ugly girls to do would be to have faith. Simple. It might be difficult, even if you think you suck, but it's the best way forward. We'll all be here to prop up if/when things f*ck-up, but eventually you will succeed. Hopefully the other person will too. And why should they have faith? For what reason should they not sit out, when the constant message from men is that ugly and fat are not acceptable?
ThaWholigan Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 And why should they have faith? For what reason should they not sit out, when the constant message from men is that ugly and fat are not acceptable? Do you want to sit out? And where is this message coming from? Pseudo-fags on the internet? 3
Author verhrzn Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Do you want to sit out? And where is this message coming from? Pseudo-fags on the internet? Come on, you read this forum. And PUA articles. And men's articles. Heck, I can't even go onto a nerd-based forum without seeing "Ride excludes fat chicks" signatures. Fat white girls have a hard time getting play, that's just an obvious fact. I want to sit out if it's a waste of my time. It means giving up on my dreams (house, kids, dog, etc.) but I am also tired of beating myself up because I've never enough for men. So if I'm never gonna be enough, I wanna sit out before I get too beat down I can't get back up.
Lonely Ronin Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I would get the generic.... which are still $50. And no, there is nothing I can cut out. Yes, yes, you being helpful, but forgive my bluntness because I do not want to spend the whole of the thread explaining my particular situation: Come on V.... You know that something out there exists that would help you that only costs $50 a month. find a part time job on the weekend. 1
dasein Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 No idea when fat or ugly women should stop or give up on dating, but -you- should stop dwelling on the relationship aspect of life, and IMO shouldn't concern yourself with dating for a good long time. There is much more out there, and you are much more likely to find someone in the process of living a full life than in setting out to justify preconceived negative notions about dating and relationships. 3
Author verhrzn Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Come on V.... You know that something out there exists that would help you that only costs $50 a month. find a part time job on the weekend. No, I really don't. I am not a pharmacist or a doctor, so how would I know what medications are available?? I take what they tell me, and the doc says weight gain is just a fact. It's impossible to find a medication WITHOUT side effects, especially when a drug is messing with your body's chemistry in such a way as anti-depressants are.
Lonely Ronin Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 5' 128 lbs. I don't see anything wrong with her. Browse Photos - My Body Gallery - What Real Women Look Like
Lonely Ronin Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 you just said I would get the generic.... which are still $50. And no, there is nothing I can cut out. Yes, yes, you being helpful, but forgive my bluntness because I do not want to spend the whole of the thread explaining my particular situation:
dasein Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 5' 128 lbs. I don't see anything wrong with her. Browse Photos - My Body Gallery - What Real Women Look Like Are you blind? Her head is shaped like a large black box. I don't find that at all attractive. 5
Author verhrzn Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 you just said So I should get a part-time job, and work 60 hours a week, thus adding even more stress, just to pay for a medication that will then reduce my stress back to what it was when I was only working 40 hours. Look. You guys are getting really, really stuck on the whole "medication = fat" part. You guys are not my doctor. I have discussed this, in depth, with my doctor, who actually knows my particulars. ALL drugs have side-effects. If it isn't weight gain, it's horrible nightmares. If it isn't nightmares, it's narcolepsy. One anxiety medication I took made me legally drunk. Sometimes, people are just fat. Can we please stop trying to solve the "fat" side of the equation and just accept that sometimes, for whatever personal/medical/financial reason, a person is fat? And yea, that girl has the same height/weight as me. But as I demonstrated in my PM, the differences between our bodies is night and day. So, please answer the original question.
ThaWholigan Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Let's just let this one lie people, we know where this is going to go....... I don't know if fat/ugly girls should stop dating or when they should stop. It's up to them at the end of the day. If you're hurt by the BS that people say on the net about you or who you perceive to be you, then I'm all for backing out if it is bring you pain. If that's what you want to hear then there it is. We are sorry, dating sucks sometimes. .....
Author verhrzn Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Let's just let this one lie people, we know where this is going to go....... I don't know if fat/ugly girls should stop dating or when they should stop. It's up to them at the end of the day. If you're hurt by the BS that people say on the net about you or who you perceive to be you, then I'm all for backing out if it is bring you pain. If that's what you want to hear then there it is. We are sorry, dating sucks sometimes. ..... That works for me.
FitChick Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 5' 128 lbs. I don't see anything wrong with her. Browse Photos - My Body Gallery - What Real Women Look Like I plugged in my stats into their website and got a message saying there were no real women who looked like that. I must be some sort of freak at 5'8", 127 lbs, 36-26-36. Now if I can't get a date, I can blame it on my body.
MrCastle Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 5' 128 lbs. I don't see anything wrong with her. Browse Photos - My Body Gallery - What Real Women Look Like WOW. I don't see anything wrong with her, either. In fact. I see a whole lot of right.
somedude81 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I plugged in my stats into their website and got a message saying there were no real women who looked like that. I must be some sort of freak at 5'8", 127 lbs, 36-26-36. Now if I can't get a date, I can blame it on my body. There were lots of girls who were 5'8 and 130 Some of them looked really skinny, some looked frumpy, some looked really good.
Ninjainpajamas Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 For some reason my search for 4'0", 500lbs is also coming up empty...oh well, a man can dream. 1
phineas Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 This has to be THE MOST moronic online conversation I've ever had the misfortune to witness. Shame on you all. I agree. verhrzn is far far far from fat or ugly. 1
todreaminblue Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 There are so many people in the dating pool who have different issues...should everybody who has a specific issue sit out....wouldn't have anyone in the dating pool....i reckon dickhead men should be excluded liars, then there people who suffer mental illness that most men cant handle then there are men who are short, women who are too tall, too fat too skinny too up themselves bad personality take out the nymphomaniacs because they just burn out men,take out the geeks and then maybe define skin color race religion intelligence quota financial status..... when you start segregating people because of conditions shapes or size where and when exactly does it stop.....the dating pool is already a meat market.....takes all cuts of meat to make a butcher shop...i think people should stop worrying what is kosher and what isn't kosher and just date the people of either sex they want to get to know.....not too hard too just worry about yourself and not set or speculate ideals for others who you dont know......takes all types to be in the pool i think a must have is you know how to swim in that dating pool without being taken by a shark and losing a leg or two or your bank account......deb
kiss_andmakeup Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I plugged in my stats into their website and got a message saying there were no real women who looked like that. I must be some sort of freak at 5'8", 127 lbs, 36-26-36. Now if I can't get a date, I can blame it on my body. Not sure why you're having problems with that...I plugged in that stat as well as my own (5'8" / 110lbs) and found plenty of pictures. I really do like that website!
Author verhrzn Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 I agree. verhrzn is far far far from fat or ugly. Do I really have to send a PM with a picture of my body so you guys will knock off with the lies? I posted a picture to Reddit, and I got 15-20 responses, ALL of which said I was either chubby or fat. Now, I'm not obese, but that doesn't mean I'm fat. So can we PLEASE just knock it off? I really do not want to post that same picture to this forum, because it's kind of humiliating, but I will if that's what it takes.
somedude81 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 According to the good ole BMI calculator 5'0, 130 is overweight. Though it's also at the 52nd percentile, which basically means it's completely average.
phineas Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Do I really have to send a PM with a picture of my body so you guys will knock off with the lies? I posted a picture to Reddit, and I got 15-20 responses, ALL of which said I was either chubby or fat. Now, I'm not obese, but that doesn't mean I'm fat. So can we PLEASE just knock it off? I really do not want to post that same picture to this forum, because it's kind of humiliating, but I will if that's what it takes. LOL! Reddit. A bunch of virgins living on the internet with inflated E-standards. I hope you didn't show your face. Those creepers love playing detective & tracking people down in real life. Wait, is this a trap? If I ask for a PM'd pic of your body will I get an ifarction? eh, I think it will be worth it. 4
Leigh 87 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Fat and ugly people are awesome and worthy of love too, V. In fact, fat and ugly people have the same needs as beautiful people! YOU KNOW all of this! ...........My aunty is ... OBESE, and not attractive. She has an average looking guy and has 5 children with him. They have been in love since they were age 16. Fat and ugly people have happy endings, it is just with other fat and ugly people, normally. People who can get people that physically turn them on will go for them, and either have that option or not. People who do not have the option of gaining a mate they are physically attracted to, will end up finding a mate that they are in love with, but will have to work on the attraction side.
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