KunFuZed Posted August 7, 2004 Posted August 7, 2004 OK My boyfriend of 7 months has been accusing me of cheating since like the 2nd month we been together and still continues to accuse me. The thing is I am not cheating. I'm not like those people you see on Maury who says I didn't cheat and the test comes back saying that I'm lying. I never really thought about doing it until we went on summer break. We go to school together but we don't live in the same state and after spend 4 no-sex-at-all-months apart he tells me he wants to be a Christian now and not have sex any more. I respected that. Even though the thought came across my mind I still never did it. But now he's mad because I didn't call him and he thinks I was out cheating. I'm like WTF r u serious. How can I convince him that I didn't cheat and I will never cheat or should I just say F*ck it and live him alone.
MotoKrossDude Posted August 7, 2004 Posted August 7, 2004 he is probably just scared. most guys wont admit to it, but we are scared sh*tless of being hurt. i know. my girlfriend kissed another guy while in europe (i know its not as bad as having sex or dating someone else, but still) and now i dont know if i should let my guard down and just accept it as a mistake. the bottom line is that you are in different states and he is being too overprotective. if he wants a real relationship, he needs to learn to trust you. you either need to convince him that you are a trustworthy person, maybe just by telling him. or you could not, if he's someone you really like, then he is the one that needs to learn to trust you. he's just scared, you need to talk to him about it.
The_Analyzer Posted August 7, 2004 Posted August 7, 2004 Alot of times, the person thats accussing the other of cheating, is the one cheating. Now, please understand I'm not saying for sure that he is. However, I think you need to pay a little more attention to the way he is acting. Him all of a sudden wanting to be a christain and not have sex anymore, sorry I don't by that. People that accuse you of something you're not doing, usually comes from them feeling guilty to what it is they are doing. I would keep my eyes and ears open. Good luck.
Natalija Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 I do not agree with the opinion that he might cheat on her because he does not sleep with her now. When I became a Christian I also said boyfriend that fro m mow on I can not sleep with him out if marriage. When you encounter Jesus , your life changes and you just CAN NOT do some things which are contradicted to Bible. As for his insecurity I understand it . The girl should tell him seriously that he should believe her. Also I think guys if oyu have such issues you should get married if you committed to each other to have sex again.
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