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No sex for 6 months. Should we still share a bed?


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Hi. Several of you will know my story. Out of counselling after a (very) dry period and then a dry period for 6 months (and counting).

 

We are still sharing a bed every evening - sleeping, nothing more.

 

Recently I've begun to question this. Is this healthy/helping or should I insist on sleeping in another room until/if things change.

 

(From my own perspective I think sleeping together is maintaining a bond which is hard to break - though I know in my heart/head I should).

 

I know the suggestion will devastate my g/f but is it right to sleep as lovers when all we do (and, on my part - at least, feel like doing) is sleep?

 

Thoughts?

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How are you going to meet a nice gf if you continue to share a bed with a housemate?

 

Prob time to move out.

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