BetheButterfly Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 the bottom line is lots of guys will do what it takes to get what they want. if girls fall for guys who won't take no for an answer, guys will continue said behavior. that's the way things are, we can cry about it or accept reality. True. That's why it's so important to love a man who is not selfish but actually loves, cares for, and respects you. It takes time for that to happen. Having sex with a stranger normally does not cultivate love, care, or respect.
justsayn Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 Wow, first let me say that I am sorry you are getting beat up over this by some posts. That being said, you did use extremely poor judgement by sleeping with what amounts to a stranger. I don't know you, but I'll take you at your word that this is not something you make a habit of doing. I think everyone here can admit that we have made some mistakes/poor choices in our lives. The only thing we can do, is learn from them and make better choices going forward. One thing that struck me as a little scary from the OP is that his insistence on getting you home the following day means that he now knows where you live. I agree with the possibility that this guy may keep your number to add to his little black book and call "in dry times," but don't be shocked if, on drunken night (or during a "dry time") he shows up on your doorstep. For your own safety, please keep this in mind in the future. Best of luck to you
Leigh 87 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Look, don't feel bad, we have ALL (most of us!) made bad decisions that we regret or feel a little embarrassed about! The key lesson here is: unless you know a guy for a while first, do NOT sleep with them! Make sure you are on friendly terms first, and ensure you both have a mutual respect for on another! If you let a guy sleep with you before getting to know him, he is not earning the privilage of putting his dick inside of you! You have no idea what a guy is like from one night! Therefore, you have NO idea if he will call again, or if he was just drunk and horny, with no other intention of getting laid! Even if he DID like you, he was probably too drunk to remember your interaction that much, and the drive home may not have given him enough reason to see you again. NEXT TIME: TRY to get to know a guy BEFORE sleeping with them! It will really help you avoid guys who won't call you afterwards! Just try to go for men who like and respect you as a person, and men who are mature enough to have an honest discussion about the sex after the event! Some men will be very upfront, rather than just ignoring you after the deed! Good luck! Next time, try to pick guys that seam like they will be honest with you, rather than keep you guessing as to WHY they ignored you after sex! 1
charlietheginger Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Asking your number is common curtsey Chance are he gave you a fakewrong number... kinda like hey i stuck my penis in you Dont feel like a slut take my number
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