joel Posted August 7, 2004 Posted August 7, 2004 i'm 23 yr old guy lack a car have no freinds to borrow from. we would be taking the bus , walk or bike. should i accomate by going to a eatery which is close to her place or should i chose a place which is close to both our places. if she says yes but then i tell her i have no car to pick her up in and then she says no, what should i do. i have no car. will she want me if i have no car since many chinese guy have cars and nice ones too-when she find out i don have one will she be uniterested. i ussually think chinese gals were more $$ than whtie gals, most of the time i was into-attracted to white gals, but b/c this chinese gal glanced at me - i am giving it a shot.i got a feeling once she finds out i'm not the typical chinese sterotypical asian guy-smart, studious, drive nice car, rich, good in math and school, she goona dump me.i like a western guy inside really open and a chinese guy outside-i was born in canada.
seahorse Posted August 7, 2004 Posted August 7, 2004 Ok, so how do you know what she is expecting? She obviously likes you or she wouldn't have agreed to go out with you. Take her for a walk, pop in somewhere to eat, walk her home after. You don't need to explain about the car, or if you must, just tell her the truth. She'll appreciate it a lot more than any lies. Ask her about herself, be interested in her. Go with the flow and see how it works out. I know this might seem like a matter of life and death right now, but it's just ONE DATE. If she goes off you because you haven't got a car, was she the girl for you in the first place? As for not being smart, studious etc. Everyone has got a talent, or an aptitude. Stop being so hard on yourself. seahorse
joseph Posted August 7, 2004 Posted August 7, 2004 I totally agree! I just sold my car, and Im not worried about when I go out with girls. Just meet her at the destination. Its as easy as that; either that or you can walk together. Don't get all worked up about this, just go out and have fun. Dont even think about the car.
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