why would she date me

[joel]

i'm 23 yr old guy lack a car have no freinds to borrow from. we would be taking the bus , walk or bike. should i accomate by going to a eatery which is close to her place or should i chose a place which is close to both our places. if she says yes but then i tell her i have no car to pick her up in and then she says no, what should i do. i have no car. will she want me if i have no car since many chinese guy have cars and nice ones too-when she find out i don have one will she be uniterested. i ussually think chinese gals were more $$ than whtie gals, most of the time i was into-attracted to white gals, but b/c this chinese gal glanced at me - i am giving it a shot.i got a feeling once she finds out i'm not the typical chinese sterotypical asian guy-smart, studious, drive nice car, rich, good in math and school, she goona dump me.i like a western guy inside really open and a chinese guy outside-i was born in canada.

[seahorse]

Ok, so how do you know what she is expecting? She obviously likes you or she wouldn't have agreed to go out with you. Take her for a walk, pop in somewhere to eat, walk her home after. You don't need to explain about the car, or if you must, just tell her the truth. She'll appreciate it a lot more than any lies. Ask her about herself, be interested in her. Go with the flow and see how it works out.

 

I know this might seem like a matter of life and death right now, but it's just ONE DATE. If she goes off you because you haven't got a car, was she the girl for you in the first place?

 

As for not being smart, studious etc. Everyone has got a talent, or an aptitude. Stop being so hard on yourself.

 

seahorse

[joseph]

I totally agree!

 

I just sold my car, and Im not worried about when I go out with girls. Just meet her at the destination. Its as easy as that; either that or you can walk together.

Don't get all worked up about this, just go out and have fun. Dont even think about the car.