jamielee Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 my boyfriend left me ffor another woman the break up was bad and its really dificult for me and now he expects me to put up with him after what he did to me i asked him for some time to heal then he can come see his son but he does not want to understand that he saying am keeping him away from his son the thing is that every time i allow him to see his son we always end up fighting then he says all this hurtful things to me
Krytie TV Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Try posting this in a more appropriate sub-forum? This is the parenting forum.
2sure Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Is your son so young that his dad isnt just picking him up but actually visiting at your place...or does the fighting happen during drop off/pick up?
Author jamielee Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Is your son so young that his dad isnt just picking him up but actually visiting at your place...or does the fighting happen during drop off/pick up? yes his only 5months and i dont trust him with my son,cause he is not responsible with his own life.. how do i get along with him for our son sake and his making it dificult to get along everytime i try then he does something for us to fight
2sure Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Unless you have court ordered child custody arrangements , you can pick when, if, and how he sees his son. If there are grandparents available I would suggest he visit the baby under their supervision instead of yours. The stress of the 2 of you fighting isnt good for you or baby. If you will be going to court for child support he may then take you to court for some visitation rules...but you can request supervised visits through a third party until the two of you are more amicable.
Author jamielee Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Unless you have court ordered child custody arrangements , you can pick when, if, and how he sees his son. If there are grandparents available I would suggest he visit the baby under their supervision instead of yours. The stress of the 2 of you fighting isnt good for you or baby. If you will be going to court for child support he may then take you to court for some visitation rules...but you can request supervised visits through a third party until the two of you are more amicable. thank you i think thats perfect that he communicate with my parents about the baby i realy want whats best for my son only with the situation itz imposible
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