Disillusioned Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 (edited) I see most people here would agree, that by in large, male gender is more kind and empathetic of the two. Any logical woman would see that and would agree that most women are cold and heartless. IME this is true. schadenfreude is a quintessentially female emotion. Edited November 20, 2012 by Disillusioned
Necris Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 Just target women who will be receptive and ignore the ones who aren't. It's really just that simple. (Oh and by receptive they don't have to want to jump right into your pants either. Taking a woman out dose not have to result in immediate fellatio to mean she's into you.) If you keep picking the wrong women don't complain about the results. You say this like this is easy, but most guys aren't mind readers and if you're like me no women will ever flirt with you and if they do flirt with you most of the time its because they just like flirting with everyone not because they are actually interested so its extremely difficult to gauge interest. So you have to get brave, find someone you think you might be interested in, talk to them, get shot down and do it all over again without making any progress.
MrCastle Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 This thread is fail because you can't change or help who you're attracted to. Unless OP is suggesting you bang whatever woman is willing to bang you i.e. use them just for sex. In which case I'm sure a lot of women on here would not support that idea.
ThaWholigan Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 You say this like this is easy, but most guys aren't mind readers and if you're like me no women will ever flirt with you and if they do flirt with you most of the time its because they just like flirting with everyone not because they are actually interested so its extremely difficult to gauge interest. So you have to get brave, find someone you think you might be interested in, talk to them, get shot down and do it all over again without making any progress. APPROACH GUIDE | Seduction Myth
Author Mrlonelyone Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 This thread is fail because you can't change or help who you're attracted to. Unless OP is suggesting you bang whatever woman is willing to bang you i.e. use them just for sex. In which case I'm sure a lot of women on here would not support that idea. What I am saying is more like. If your a short man who wants to date a tall thin VS model look alike don't hate on women for being fixatex on tall brawny men. Then when you fail to gain such women don't complain about it. @necris This is me. https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/527724_3568282059588_529483218_n.jpg Looking like that. At 5'10" and 175lbs I get hit on by women, and men. Are you guys really that much different than me? I refuse to believe that I'm so much better looking or anything that my opinions and experiences just don't apply to you. IDK maybe trannies like me have a sort of male peacock / male lions mane effect going for us? Maybe my experiences are just that different.
Necris Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 APPROACH GUIDE | Seduction Myth Thanks, very interesting.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted November 21, 2012 Author Posted November 21, 2012 Are you really a tranny?. Yes, a non-op transgender male to female. Like this person in some ways.
PJKino Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Your outlook on height is not my reality The few women who showed interest in me were around my height 5'7-5'8 The women in my social circle though mostly married are all around 5'2-5'5 and have preferted tall men and have mentioned disdain for short men over the years
MrCastle Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 What I am saying is more like. If your a short man who wants to date a tall thin VS model look alike don't hate on women for being fixatex on tall brawny men. Then when you fail to gain such women don't complain about it. @necris This is me. https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/527724_3568282059588_529483218_n.jpg Looking like that. At 5'10" and 175lbs I get hit on by women, and men. Are you guys really that much different than me? I refuse to believe that I'm so much better looking or anything that my opinions and experiences just don't apply to you. Actually, yes. We are quite different. You have me by 3 inches and 30 pounds; but I digress. The fact still remains, as someone mentioned earlier, attraction is not logical. You don't decide what you like. It's built into you. It's no coincidence every girl I've ever tried to get in my bed were either actual models, girls who were tinkering with the idea of getting into modeling, or girls that could pass for a model. I'm a sucker for a flawless face and killer body. It is what it is. I can't change it, I won't change it. In my situation, the quantity of my success is few and far between. But quality wise, it's unreal. I would rather get one perfect 10 every four or five months than sleep with people I deem less attractive every other week. The girls I go after have seemingly limitless options. My competition is not always, but usually, someone taller, or better looking, or more muscular, or more established in their career, etc. So I've taken some losses and understandably so. Still though, my level of standards both physical and personality wise will not be compromised. I'm not going to tell myself "well I could get laid every week if I just went for girls slightly less attractive". That's not fair to either us, especially the woman who I'd basically just be using for sex.
maybealone Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Actually, yes. We are quite different. You have me by 3 inches and 30 pounds; but I digress. The fact still remains, as someone mentioned earlier, attraction is not logical. You don't decide what you like. It's built into you. It's no coincidence every girl I've ever tried to get in my bed were either actual models, girls who were tinkering with the idea of getting into modeling, or girls that could pass for a model. I'm a sucker for a flawless face and killer body. It is what it is. I can't change it, I won't change it. In my situation, the quantity of my success is few and far between. But quality wise, it's unreal. I would rather get one perfect 10 every four or five months than sleep with people I deem less attractive every other week. The girls I go after have seemingly limitless options. My competition is not always, but usually, someone taller, or better looking, or more muscular, or more established in their career, etc. So I've taken some losses and understandably so. Still though, my level of standards both physical and personality wise will not be compromised. I'm not going to tell myself "well I could get laid every week if I just went for girls slightly less attractive". That's not fair to either us, especially the woman who I'd basically just be using for sex. I understand that people cannot change who they are attracted to. But I also think that if someone is only attracted to actual models, girls who were tinkering with the idea of getting into modeling, or girls that could pass for a model, then they should not complain if they don't have dates every weekend. The same is true for women. I don't have any sympathy for women who are only attracted to men over 6 feet tall. If that's who they are attracted to, then that's fine -- but in the past couple of months I have done a lot of traveling and, because of LS, I have been noticing men's height. I just don't see that many really tall men out there. And while some people do really have a very narrow, specific type that they are attracted to, I think that most people are attracted to a wider range. But due to some misguided sense of status or whatever, some are not willing to admit that.
MrCastle Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 I understand that people cannot change who they are attracted to. But I also think that if someone is only attracted to actual models, girls who were tinkering with the idea of getting into modeling, or girls that could pass for a model, then they should not complain if they don't have dates every weekend. The same is true for women. I don't have any sympathy for women who are only attracted to men over 6 feet tall. If that's who they are attracted to, then that's fine -- but in the past couple of months I have done a lot of traveling and, because of LS, I have been noticing men's height. I just don't see that many really tall men out there. And while some people do really have a very narrow, specific type that they are attracted to, I think that most people are attracted to a wider range. But due to some misguided sense of status or whatever, some are not willing to admit that. Oh totally. I've never made a thread whining about lack of dates or whatnot. I am fully aware that I shoot for the stars with every chick I go after. I've never settled in my entire dating life. Not once. So yeah, sometimes that means I go dateless for extended periods of time but I know when the dry spell is broken it's going to be with a girl I'm 100% into. That kind of satisfaction can carry for months at a time during my dry spells. I've yet to crack and lower my standards. I agree if you go by my practice, you can't complain about lack of dates. Those women who only go for tall men are at a disadvantage because most people are not tall. There's a reason the word "average" exists. It's because most people fit into that height. So in your everyday life, you're going to run into average height people the majority of the time. Then when you in fact do meet someone tall, they have to be your type, and single. That's a tall order (no pun intended). So I have no sympathy for those women and I expect no one has sympathy for me.
El Brujo Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 most guys aren't mind readers This is true, but it'll sure take the wind out of a lot of women's sails if word gets around.
Failboy Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Kim Kardashian is not hot. If people would judge random people as harshly as they judge celebrities... oh my. All I know is this: Kim is infinitely hotter than most women who mercilessly rejected me without thinking twice. So in conclusion, whether she is hot or not, a woman who looked like her would be a HUGE accomplishment for me. (A completely unrealistic one, so to speak.. lottery level)
yongyong Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 your thread sounds very ridiculous. First of all, why do you compare guys chasing some girl to a girl who keeps spreading her legs to douchebags and crying about it? To make it fair, you should talk about guys in a relationship with some idiotic gf and complains about it. It's the same for both gender. they want to be certain people but they have hard time attracting them. How do you know they will like you if you don't chase them? Are you saying people should find someone they think they have no problem attracting it? Listen to this, my friend keeps complaining about those low class women he says this, 'I am single, make decent money. she is single mom, makes just over minimum wage and fat. they ignore me at a bar??' In your theory, they should be happy to give out their number to him but it doesn't work that way. It's better to go for what you like (I believe everyone has common sense) even though it won't happen right away and ignore the ones you don't like.
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