DaBears93 Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 I been talking to her for like 2 months, we both go to college and work 2 jobs. We only went out a couple of times, its tough because I work evenings some days and also work days, she works evenings. Most of the times I asked her to hangout she said she had work. One day I told her we need to hangout soon and she said "yeah I know we do! we have opposite schedules it sucks." I hated asking her this, but I needed to know if this was going anywhere. Me: Hey you're really confusing me lately. I like you, but is this going anywhere or did you just want to be friends? Her: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to confuse you. I like you too, but I don't really want a boyfriend right now. I just got out of a really long relationship. Me: Okay thats fine. Her: I do like you, I just need a little time I'm sorry. I thought she didn't really like me when she said that so I was going to give her space, but then she texted me 2 days later. We haven't talked in 4 days so I'm not sure if I should initiate a conversation or just let it go.
Sameold Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 Think you did the right thing by bringing it up after 2 months. I'd probably leave it, you've made your position known and ultimately you can't just go on dating forever, you need things to move forward and if she can't do that it is best it stops.
Author DaBears93 Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 Think you did the right thing by bringing it up after 2 months. I'd probably leave it, you've made your position known and ultimately you can't just go on dating forever, you need things to move forward and if she can't do that it is best it stops. Yea I'm most likely going to leave it, but I was just curious what other people think. It sucks because I thought we had something, but I guess she didn't feel the same Idk.
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