Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 Do not give him money and don't feel bad about it for a second. In fact delete his number and never reply to him again. How much does he want? Wow hes sooo inappropriate, please stop being so naive!!! It was like 180 dollars and like I said I don't have it lol. I think he is done talking to me anyways I told him "sorry I wish I could help" and then he got short with me so I guess that's over. :/
somedude81 Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 It was like 180 dollars and like I said I don't have it lol. I think he is done talking to me anyways I told him "sorry I wish I could help" and then he got short with me so I guess that's over. :/ Now please delete his number. Then go out and find another cute guy. 1
SmileFace Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 What a classless turd. Wtf is wrong with people.
justsayn Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 From your OP and subsequent posts, you seem like a genuinely nice person. Unfortunately, there are those out there who will take advantage of that quality. I agree with other posts who assert that if this guy was made homeless by his own mother AND he has no other relatives or friends that will take him in, even temporarily, there is something not right. Stop beating yourself up over this. Enjoy the holidays with your family. If this guy put as much effort into repairing his relationship with his mother as he has done getting you to pity him, then he might be able to enjoy his holiday with his own family. It is completely inappropriate for him to be even hinting at getting money from someone he has known for 2 days and he should be ashamed of himself. If he contacts you again and you feel guilty, offer him a list of local shelters or hostels. Honestly though, if he has a bachelor's degree, these are resources he should be able to find on his own. Don't get me wrong, I am all for helping those less fortunate, but not those that prey others. If this guy starting blowing you off after you let on that you could not help him with money, then he's not worth another thought, let alone you feeling guilty. Best of luck to you.
LittlePrince Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 What a classless turd. Wtf is wrong with people. Class is for those who have it too good and therefore can afford it. With your vulgar commentary you obviously need a hand out too so you can afford some class.
SmileFace Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 (edited) Class is for those who have it too good and therefore can afford it. With your vulgar commentary you obviously need a hand out too so you can afford some class. Whatever you say ... Let me go give back to the community by helping the homeless boys who work at my local Radio Shack. That should level out my vulgarity. Maybe teach me some class. Edited November 20, 2012 by SmileFace 2
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 From your OP and subsequent posts, you seem like a genuinely nice person. Unfortunately, there are those out there who will take advantage of that quality. I agree with other posts who assert that if this guy was made homeless by his own mother AND he has no other relatives or friends that will take him in, even temporarily, there is something not right. Stop beating yourself up over this. Enjoy the holidays with your family. If this guy put as much effort into repairing his relationship with his mother as he has done getting you to pity him, then he might be able to enjoy his holiday with his own family. It is completely inappropriate for him to be even hinting at getting money from someone he has known for 2 days and he should be ashamed of himself. If he contacts you again and you feel guilty, offer him a list of local shelters or hostels. Honestly though, if he has a bachelor's degree, these are resources he should be able to find on his own. Don't get me wrong, I am all for helping those less fortunate, but not those that prey others. If this guy starting blowing you off after you let on that you could not help him with money, then he's not worth another thought, let alone you feeling guilty. Best of luck to you. I'm done with him. I thought it over a lot last night and it is just so odd to even mention it the way he did. I can't help him and in all honesty I don't want to stress about it. 1
Yookie Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 He's sounds like one of those pretty boy con-artist who prey on women who they feel are easy marks... women who may not get approached by guys like them. I would bet that his mom never kicked him out. He's just made it up to have a reason to ask you for money and to gain your immediate sympathy. I also doubt he's in school for his masters. He's not even smart enough to make his con sound plausible.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 22, 2012 Author Posted November 22, 2012 He just came out and asked me just now... I said no sorry. Guys are crazy nowadays
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 Time to get real. You walk with a cane and this Casanova was hitting on you at Best Buy and never even asked WHY you walk with a cane? And you honestly think it's because he's so altruistic that he was blind to it? More like he's an opportunist - the type that knows girls with canes probably aren't fighting the guys off 10 at a time and sees you as an easy mark (as someone else mentioned). Just keeping it real. Lastly, if this idiot's OWN PARENTS don't want him in their freakin' house, there's got to be a damned GOOD reason for it. That fact ALONE doesn't raise a HUGE red flag with you??? Seriously???? Well first of all I'm not like the most ugly person ever. I get hit on a lot I just don't always think the guys who hit on me are attractive so I don't talk to them but he was. I'm not saying that he thought that or didn't think that but I'm pretty attractive and guys like me.
Yookie Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 The point is that if you had a lot of attractive guys hitting on you all the time, then his approach would not have been a big deal and your behavior would have been different. He probably could tell you thought he would make cute babies.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 The point is that if you had a lot of attractive guys hitting on you all the time, then his approach would not have been a big deal and your behavior would have been different. He probably could tell you thought he would make cute babies. What girl doesn't get excited when a hot guy hits on them..
somedude81 Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 What girl doesn't get excited when a hot guy hits on them.. I think it's a lot more then they would like to admit. Women keep trying to tell guys that looks doesn't matter and that it's all about personality. Truth is, women want somebody hot just like men do.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted November 23, 2012 Author Posted November 23, 2012 I think it's a lot more then they would like to admit. Women keep trying to tell guys that looks doesn't matter and that it's all about personality. Truth is, women want somebody hot just like men do. Exactly I'm just honest about what I want. Want a damn hot guy! Lol 1
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