NYC-BigKat Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Um..it feels kinda weird to me u know . Why does she wanna meet so fast when we just started talking saturday?! This how it went. I saw her picture on the 'add her if u know her' feature so I thought she was cute so I sent her a request & she accepted it in seconds. SHe has over 50 pictures & she looks nice in most of them so I dont think she's fake & she has over 300 friends so she's real right? But uh..after I got her number & texted her she replied real fast & says lets meet tomorrow. Is that too fast to meet off facebook? Is she a weirdo maybe? What to do 'cause girls dont usually do this?!
Pyro Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Um..it feels kinda weird to me u know . Why does she wanna meet so fast when we just started talking saturday?! This how it went. I saw her picture on the 'add her if u know her' feature so I thought she was cute so I sent her a request & she accepted it in seconds. SHe has over 50 pictures & she looks nice in most of them so I dont think she's fake & she has over 300 friends so she's real right? But uh..after I got her number & texted her she replied real fast & says lets meet tomorrow. Is that too fast to meet off facebook? Is she a weirdo maybe? What to do 'cause girls dont usually do this?! I've had those type of girls from FB friend request me but being that there were no mutual friends (plus obviously being married) I declined. Seems like a scam of some sort. If she messaged you that then why the heck not? Meet at a public place (bar/restaurant) because you have nothing to lose. 1
mammasita Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Maybe she just isn't into messaging and chit chatting or is super easy and looking for sex. Be cautious, but I say go for it, meet in a well lit public place and let all your friends and family know that if they don't hear from you by morning to call the police.
pteromom Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 I agree with Pyro. What have you got to lose by just meeting her in a public place? At best, you'll meet someone who is nice, and at worst, you'll have a great story to share on the next date. Go for it.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 19, 2012 Author Posted November 19, 2012 I've had those type of girls from FB friend request me but being that there were no mutual friends (plus obviously being married) I declined. Seems like a scam of some sort. If she messaged you that then why the heck not? Meet at a public place (bar/restaurant) because you have nothing to lose. Yea was thinking of a scam 'cause before I had a girl on facebook message me out of nowhere on my b-day wanting to meet at the bowling alley & she wasn't even there! I'm gonna keep texting her then ask if we can talk on the phone before I try anything.
Eternal Sunshine Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Just go and meet her. If you waffle on meeting, she will most likely just click on the next guy.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 I agree with Pyro. What have you got to lose by just meeting her in a public place? At best, you'll meet someone who is nice, and at worst, you'll have a great story to share on the next date. Go for it. Nice?! Nope no way! I ask just to hear her voice on the phone so I can just know she's for real & not a scammer & she texts me 'leave me alone & dont text me again' I'm really really getting sick of girls' nonsense now.
Pyro Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 Nice?! Nope no way! I ask just to hear her voice on the phone so I can just know she's for real & not a scammer & she texts me 'leave me alone & dont text me again' I'm really really getting sick of girls' nonsense now. Seriously? Not laughing at you but just how out of left field her response was. Don't use facebook as a place to meet women. If you are using the internet stick to the dating sites.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 Seriously? Not laughing at you but just how out of left field her response was. Don't use facebook as a place to meet women. If you are using the internet stick to the dating sites. Dating sites are really really bad too u know. I see complaints all the time on here & other places alot too. I just wish I could be more like my uncle when it comes to girls 'cause he has no trouble at all & never has to go through a stupid game like me .
LittlePrince Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 Um..it feels kinda weird to me u know . Why does she wanna meet so fast when we just started talking saturday?! This how it went. I saw her picture on the 'add her if u know her' feature so I thought she was cute so I sent her a request & she accepted it in seconds. SHe has over 50 pictures & she looks nice in most of them so I dont think she's fake & she has over 300 friends so she's real right? But uh..after I got her number & texted her she replied real fast & says lets meet tomorrow. Is that too fast to meet off facebook? Is she a weirdo maybe? What to do 'cause girls dont usually do this?! Girls desperate for a relationship do.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 Girls desperate for a relationship do. Go read my other posts 'cause she not so desperate now for me .
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