gabriel345 Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Ok, I posted I long thread in a different forum, wrong one perhaps, here goes the recap. He BU with me 3 months ago, long term relationship. I've been doing most of the contact and we've been talking and meeting from time to time, almost every week, once. He had never changed his mind until we had agreed to a date, we had a misunderstanding and we never went. We cleared things up, he said he thought on a normal date and I said that's not what I wanted but a slow try to things. Even with that he asked me out again. Finally we went out a day ago, we had a wonderful time together he also had a great time, he told me and I could see he was enjoying it. At the end of the night he kissed me and after few more I kissed him back. After this he got very confused/distant and told me he missed me and that he would text before I left. Do you guys think he'll actually will contact me? We Do need to talk about this later on but I'm afraid he wont initiate contact and I'll have to do it again. What you guys reckon? I really need some input, I can't get this off my mind.
Author gabriel345 Posted November 19, 2012 Author Posted November 19, 2012 I might contact him before time, I'm very worried about this. We do need to talk about it but a day passed and he hasn't called. Any input on what should I do, what was on his mind? I'm trying to let it all out here so I won't initiate contact again but it's literally not leaving my mind at ALL. Please help, any input would be greatly appreciated.
Kite Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 I think you have made a lot of effort from your end. Don't contact him. Let him come to you, then you will know that he is interested. That's really the only advice I can give you. He seems unsure and wishy-washy. He should be sure about you and you should not hang around and wait for him to make up his mind.
Author gabriel345 Posted November 20, 2012 Author Posted November 20, 2012 Update. So he contacted me through fb. I didn't answer him for a while and then i played hard to get, seemed to back fire on me because the conversation never went anywhere. I ended it within 10min of it starting and he never spoke of what happened or anything really, just to ask what I was doing and that sort of things. Actually, he didn't spoke much after I left him waiting a bit. He said he was busy and in a short amount of time after I stopped talking to him, he left. This morning he was on again but we didn't talk since I only stayed for a few minutes. I do have to point out he hasn't been logging in since we BU. I know it's nothing to be freaked about because well, I agreed on letting it flow and I'm maintaining my part of doing absolutely nothing. Yet I dunno if he agreed to the same, he did ask me out and all but he hasn't actually said he has. Does that mean anything or is it ok for my situation since he contacted me, etc? Just wish we could've had a proper conversation but it's ok for the time being since I'm agreeing to slow things but I need to know if he's in for that with me, like literally say it because we can still misjudge some of his actions when in reality they're nothing. I don't want to wait for a misconception
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