disconcertainly Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 Is it so much to ask that I want to tobe treated resepectfully in a relationship. Every problem that comes to rear its ugly head does it always have to be my fault? I am so sick and tired of every single relationship that I am in....everything is always my fault. For once when I call my man I just want him to glad that he can talk to me for a minute. I just want be shown that I am truly appreicated..... at this point I am not that sure that any relationship can mantain the youthful, young, tender, respectful feeling for always. Someone Prove me Wrong.
Moose Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 I most certainly will.....It is possible to have the relationship you seek. But it's not for the lazy, ( I'm not calling you lazy, ok? ). It takes a lot of work to gain the respect of your SO to where you will be treated in kind. My question to you is, is it always your fault? What situations are you finding yourself in? Are you putting in 100% to your relationships? Is you SO putting in 100%? Always remember, it's not 50/50......ever!!!! Try the five love languages. http://www.fivelovelanguages.com , this has been our guidline to our marriage and it could help you in your quest. Good luck!! Moose
Taken_Angel Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 Every relationship you've been in it's been the same? To me this says: 1) you're chosing the wrong type of man. (a user who takes takes takes and doesn't give back emotionally). 2) there are underlined issues with you that you need to look at, maybe they can them where as to you can't. (maybe you're too needy, ect) (i don't know just a thought before you get defensive). 3) they aren't good at expressing their feelings to you. 4) You can't see the subtle signs that they give to show you they appreciate you. Who knows...only you can evaluate what's going on in your relationships, since none of us know you personally you need to step back and try and see what the pattern is.
Author disconcertainly Posted August 6, 2004 Author Posted August 6, 2004 When I say every relationship has been the same....I have had about 3 that have been kinda the same.
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