Pegging..hope you know what that is...

[Smexyk]

So I realize this might make me sound like an idiot. But I always wanted to get into pegging but was never with anyone who I could even talk to about it.

 

My current bf who I am going to break up with (things are bloody awful all around. Long story) is the only one who knows about me liking pegging and is the only one Ive done it with. My pathetic part to this story is this. part of me doesnt want to break up with him because I dont know if Ill find anyone I can show that side to.

 

I waited so long for someone who wanted the same as me but honestly sex is the only awesome part of us. And that isnt healthy...

 

Am I just being stupid? I would really appreciate some advice. I have no one to talk about this with..thank you!

[itsmyfault]

In all honesty you should continue with the break up.

 

You say you haven't found anyone else willing to try it? Have you asked? What kind of relationship were you in with them?

 

me personally, I think if you are with someone and you love them, if they want to try something let them. you dont know what you like until you tried it.

 

I always took that approach with my Ex and she found stuff she liked that she'd never even thought about.

 

I'd say the reason you haven't found someone to do that with is maybe because you have never found someone you are completely comfortable with?

[Smexyk]

I never thought about it that way. But thinking back I guess I really havent been able to let my walls down and tell people what I honestly like.

[itsmyfault]

If you can't be forward and tell people what you like, How can you ever expect to be completely comfortable with them.

 

Im not saying jump straight in there and tell someone you meet, but if you find someone you want to be completely comfortable with you need to tell them. If they really love you, I'd hope they would at least let you try.

 

If you can't be completely true to yourself then you won't ever find the happiness you are after