gabriel345 Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Ok, so my ex broke up with me 3 months ago after LTR. One month no contact. I initiated contact. To my surprise he seemed happy, cordial, and almost excited to see me. We talked a few times after that, he stuck with I love you but not enough to be in a relationship but gave me crumbs. Weeks passed, he agreed to a date after he said he missed me and I asked him. We never went because he got angry about a message I sent him (I was out of town and we agreed that I let him know I was back so we could put a date and so forth). We talked about that later on, it was a misunderstanding and we cleared up other things too. He said he thought it was a casual date and I corrected him saying that I had agreed to trying things slowly not casual things. We had few arguments but no biggy. At the end of the night he asked me out again. I said I would let him know because I was busy the day he had said. I ended up calling him (same day) and asked him the time so I could make it after work. So we went, had an awesome time, lots of memories yet he kept it superficial and not much questions about me.Yet he was flirty and gentle like the whole time. He drove me home because he had plans for later on with his friends. Finally, he thanked me, he said he had a great time and then started kissing me in the side of the lips every so often. And I ended up returning one of those (no tongue or anything). It got very intense and passionate, I stopped it there promptly but softly. Thereafter, his attitude changed, he grabbed me but he seemed confused and distant, started saying he missed me. He said he would txt before I left in a few days but didn't exactly asked me out again. I kissed him superficially (nothing stupid just kind of tired/resignation really) on the lips and left. He stood there for a sec and later, he said bye with a peace sign! After my incredulous look, he waved then he almost did what he used to. Did I just screw the little progress we had? things seemed moving somewhere and then I lose my hold on things. But I thought I was clear about what I wanted and he did asked me out again, what's up with all of this, he can't possibly think this was casual!? I mean, I thought we both took our time and were on the same page about getting things moving but slowly because I do love him (realized after that date) but I need to see how it feels once we're there again. I do need him chasing me because honestly, I'm tired. I just want to know what your thoughts are on this BS he just pulled on me.
Author gabriel345 Posted November 19, 2012 Author Posted November 19, 2012 I really don't know what to do by now... he hasn't called and I get a feeling he won't or he'll extend it as much as he can. We DO need to talk about what happened but it can't be me again. My God, what did I do? Am I being overly paranoid? Is this supposed to happen in a reconciliation or what? Just realized how stupid I made myself look.
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