Beachg Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 I’m hoping someone can help me figure things out. I have just posted the other week in the break up sub forum. However we are still ‘together’. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months in an ldr, yet known him for years before that. However I noticed over the last 6 months a lot of red flags and a strange gut feeling something was wrong. So I asked him, but he denied feeling different towards me. So we carried on, however more red flags which suggested he was seeing someone else. After a lot of weird behaviour I asked him and he said no. I believed him, and just thought I was paranoid with the distance. The last few weeks he has been more distant than ever. Then a tagged photo appeared on a facebook open profile of him and this girl I had been suspicious he was seeing ages ago. It was undeniably a couple pic taken at a formal party I knew he’d gone to last weekend. I think he’s been passively aggressively trying to make me dump him. I imagine so he can offload some of the guilt he must be feeling. Yesterday he was very late in his morning msg to me, and said it was because this girl (the first time he has ever mentioned her to me. He even mentioned her name) had just broken up with her boyfriend, so was really upset and depressed and he had had her crying all night. There are too many signs to say he’s not being truthful and has another girl. Yet odd he mentions her by name yesterday? Tomorrow he’s off on holiday to her home country. He told me with a bunch of new mates he’s met, yet not mentioned her, but I know she’s also going. Last night I honestly felt I was going crazy with confusion and I don’t know what to believe anymore.
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