What women can offer men in the dating game.

[Necromancer]

Mostly sex and children.

 

9\10 times my guy friends are much funnier to hang around with than females.

 

Most of the females couldn't crack a joke even if it would save their lifes.

 

So my question to you what really can women offer men besides from sex and children?.

[carhill]

So my question to you what really can women offer men besides from sex and children?.

 

Companionship as well as a type of mirror and intimacy that non-romantic relations can't/don't provide.

[sweetjasmine]

Mostly sex and children.

 

9\10 times my guy friends are much funnier to hang around with than females.

 

Most of the females couldn't crack a joke even if it would save their lifes.

 

So my question to you what really can women offer men besides from sex and children?.

 

Absolutely nothing, I guess.

 

So why do you keep talking and thinking about women?

 

Who are you trying to convince?

[xxoo]

Check for aberrant moles on your back.

[volentia]

yes, men can even wash their own socks today too:p

[carhill]

Seems like you know a lot about me, more than my exW. That's interesting. Now, shall we get back to the topic or do you want to have a go at me?

[Hawakai]

Seems like you know a lot about me, more than my exW. That's interesting. Now, shall we get back to the topic or do you want to have a go at me?

 

Nah. Just a little angry that my elders instead of teaching us to not make a mistake, choose to lead us into the quicksands. Sometimes I forget that the time of men caring for each other is over.

 

I know a lot about you because I read your posts for guidance. But I'm left dissapointed. There's no pride in men anymore. It seems that being a man nowadays is like being a dictator. But instead of finding something good in your posts I just see what I don't want to become. Dasein has better content in his posts for the young men who don't want to make mistakes.

[KraftDinner]

I don't want kids so I guess I'm even more useless than other women!

:laugh:

[carhill]

Depending on the man, not wanting kids can be a discernible and valuable offer, if he's like-minded.

[Necromancer]

Nah. Just a little angry that my elders instead of teaching us to not make a mistake, choose to lead us into the quicksands. Sometimes I forget that the time of men caring for each other is over.

 

I know a lot about you because I read your posts for guidance. But I'm left dissapointed. There's no pride in men anymore. It seems that being a man nowadays is like being a dictator. But instead of finding something good in your posts I just see what I don't want to become. Dasein has better content in his posts for the young men who don't want to make mistakes.

 

Carhill and Dasein are both great posters.... If not the best here!. But i have seen that many disagree with D but i think he is really in touch with reality, not in fairytale land like few here are.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Lol Kraft.

 

SweetJasmine, stellar response. Two thumbs up.

[somedude81]

Absolutely nothing, I guess.

 

So why do you keep talking and thinking about women?

Maybe he wants sex?

[xxoo]

It may come as a surprise to some of you guys, but some men actually enjoy the company of women.

 

And those men tend to be the men that women like the most. Chicken and egg, I suppose.

[Hawakai]

It may come as a surprise to some of you guys, but some men actually enjoy the company of women.

 

And those men tend to be the men that women like the most. Chicken and egg, I suppose.

 

Like is as distant from ''attracted enough to bang'' like South America is to Asia. Its not complicated. Many women like many men. Not enough to sleep with. These guy's social skills elevated the women responses to them from neutral to warm. Not warm as in, the guy is inside the woman's sheets. Enjoying the company of women, and liking women does not share any connections with ''successful with women.''

 

I enjoy the company of women. Don't take me wrong. I spend my entire day in a college surrounded by women who do nothing more besides talking. At the end of the day you look around and it begins to dawn on you that the few guys who go to college are becoming even more feminized than women, for all they do is talk and talk and talk, and nothing really happens between them and women.

 

I do enjoy hanging out with the Austrian girl who arrived 2 weeks ago. She's rather pleasant to talk to(I mean, she doesn't execute my patience with questions because she can't get them right yet) and speaks very little English. I don't speak German. We've spent some good times just standing near each other. Don't see how being the one guy she relates the most because I'm not a hound dog is going to get me laid with her, but hey. Girls like guys who like girls.

[xxoo]

Like is as distant from ''attracted enough to bang'' like South America is to Asia.

 

I meant "like" as in "climb like a tree"

[Hawakai]

I meant "like" as in "climb like a tree"

 

I meant like as in ''girls don't like boys, they like money and cars.''

[dasein]

But instead of finding something good in your posts I just see what I don't want to become. Dasein has better content in his posts for the young men who don't want to make mistakes.

 

Thanks for the compliment, I sincerely appreciate it, but consider reading a bit deeper. Carhill is someone I have learned a lot from, maybe even some temperance of my own sometimes extreme positions on dating and conciliatory discussion, etc. I sometimes forget that you can attract more flies with honey than vinegar, a technique he masters, and you and I can both learn from... and work to our advantage.

 

And this thread topic is inflammatory by nature, soon to be moved I imagine, so was bound to ruffle various feathers, maybe we can let it die a peaceful death on whatever forum they decide to move it to.

[Stephanie]

We really don't need another one of these threads. It's misplaced and I'm not going to move it since I'm not going keep it open anyway. Thread closed.