seeing someone

[withthegloom]

ok, ladies what defines seeing someone, or "sort of seeing someone"?

[faux]

I am no lady, but I can tell you that the definition of any of those terms, or even "dating" differs from person to person. If someone told you that he or she was seeing someone, or sort of seeing someone, then you would have to ask that person what that means.

 

It is usually good to assume that a person is not interested in you, if the person mentions he or she is seeing someone, or even "sort of seeing someone".

[Wolvesbaned]

I disagree. Stating you're seeing someone is simply the truth for some people (that are honest). It doesn't necessarily mean you're not interested in the other person. Think of seeing someone = dating or getting to know. Seeing someone doesn't have the seriousness of flatly saying "I have a boyfriend".

 

How about this:

Girl: "I'm kind of seeing someone right now."

Boy: "Is it serious? I'd like to get to know you better"

 

Whatever answer you get will reveal the state of their relationship.

 

Personally, I think seeing someone literally means: just getting to know someone I'm interested in but nothing is serious just yet.

 

Good luck

[withthegloom]

Originally posted by faux

I am no lady, but I can tell you that the definition of any of those terms, or even "dating" differs from person to person. If someone told you that he or she was seeing someone, or sort of seeing someone, then you would have to ask that person what that means.

 

It is usually good to assume that a person is not interested in you, if the person mentions he or she is seeing someone, or even "sort of seeing someone".

 

ok. i mentioned it because ive seen her probably three or four times over the week. Im not busting my balls to get a hold of her, its more or less she would call and want to hangout. Which hangingout one on one three times over a week period is quite a bit for just "friends".