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I came here about a year ago (I also have far too many posts but hey :laugh:), and a hell of a lot has changed for me in that time.

 

I became far better with women than I was, I got self employed, finally lost my virginity and now I'm actually getting dates - almost by the truckload :laugh:. Who says a positive attitude doesn't get you anywhere? :D

 

I also learned a few new things too. Namely that there are women who don't care if you still live at home - unless you aren't trying to move out. Also that most guys have a few things that could potentially enable them to have more dates if they really tried.

 

It enabled me to settle into a natural rhythm and now I'm getting somewhere. I had a date on friday with a cute girl that went well and have another one this wednesday and a coffee meet up the following friday.

 

I would type more but typing on the bb is annoying and slow :laugh:. I just want guys to see the progress I have made and realize that if this weird ass autistic dude can get this far, there is nothing stopping any of you from getting there. It is hard, it was hard for me too to change my life to something I was more happy with. But you can do it.

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I came here about a year ago (I also have far too many posts but hey :laugh:), and a hell of a lot has changed for me in that time.

 

I became far better with women than I was, I got self employed, finally lost my virginity and now I'm actually getting dates - almost by the truckload :laugh:. Who says a positive attitude doesn't get you anywhere? :D

 

I also learned a few new things too. Namely that there are women who don't care if you still live at home - unless you aren't trying to move out. Also that most guys have a few things that could potentially enable them to have more dates if they really tried.

 

It enabled me to settle into a natural rhythm and now I'm getting somewhere. I had a date on friday with a cute girl that went well and have another one this wednesday and a coffee meet up the following friday.

 

I would type more but typing on the bb is annoying and slow :laugh:. I just want guys to see the progress I have made and realize that if this weird ass autistic dude can get this far, there is nothing stopping any of you from getting there. It is hard, it was hard for me too to change my life to something I was more happy with. But you can do it.

 

good post. damn you do have a lot of posts for one year. I too learned a lot about the opposite sex but OLD taught me the bulk. getting out and meeting woman is better than posting about it IMO. stop putting yourself down. I realize youre being cynical. you make it seem like youre 50. dude youre still young. you have the whole world open to you. cheers!

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I'm just wondering, are you getting the dates from online or real life?

 

If you're getting them from real life, how do you get them, do you do cold approaches?

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I'm just wondering, are you getting the dates from online or real life?

 

If you're getting them from real life, how do you get them, do you do cold approaches?

One of them was in real life, the other two was online. I have gotten a couple numbers from cold approaches but I've only made a date with one of them. I have to admit, cold approaches make me f-cking nervous even now :laugh:.

 

I also did something. Little crazy - I got a student via pof for piano lessons :D

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One of them was in real life, the other two was online. I have gotten a couple numbers from cold approaches but I've only made a date with one of them. I have to admit, cold approaches make me f-cking nervous even now :laugh:.

 

I also did something. Little crazy - I got a student via pof for piano lessons :D

 

I find just talking to girls to make me really nervous, even ones that I don't find that attractive.

 

Are you saying you've met someone on POF and you're going to give her piano lessons?

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Hey, nothing wrong with a bit of music class! :laugh:

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I find just talking to girls to make me really nervous, even ones that I don't find that attractive.

 

Are you saying you've met someone on POF and you're going to give her piano lessons?

Well, she asked me how much I charge because she really wants to learn to play piano, so it's basically business (at least I think it is :laugh:).

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