browniecalgary Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 I need some expert advise on something that is happening with me at work. I like a girl at work and apparently she likes me too. We have flirtous eye contacts, sneaky smiles and of-course talk whenever we get a chance. She eyes me every time she passes by my office and I do feel 'that thing' from her body language. I do like her and have tested myself to verify it is not just infatuation for physical desires. I look at her face while talking and she has been occupying my mind in all good ways. I have told her that I am taken (which actually I am) but that did not change much and she still keeps eyeing and giving flirtous looks. Can someone help me to understand how to really know what is going within her without breaking office decorum? I do not want to ask her out unless I know she is serious. I am quite older than her and at a much higher position of authority. She is shy in nature and very hard to judge.
coffeebean201 Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Obviously there are some feelings between both of you. I would approach it with just friendship until you have a good handle on the situation and how both your jobs and partners would be affected by getting involved. I would keep sex/sex talk and touching off-limits for now. (I knew someone for a year at work before we dated.)
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