sparklekitty111 Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 OKAY story time ill make this not too long So basically he got drunk for the very first time and he made out with a boy. He had two HUGE hickies and he has no idea who they are even from. He said while he was drunk he liked it but now he thinks its gross. Everyone thinks hes gay, and he even (faintly) admitted to being confused. He knows it was a mistake. (sort of) He told me upfront which im glad! He doesnt even makeout with me though! ugh. I'm confused. Everyone thinks hes gay. Weve been going out for 9 months now.
Joaquin Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 He sounds gay. He also cheated on you. You need to break up. It's going to be fairly miserable TRYING to have a relationship with someone who isn't attracted to you in the right way. You'll laugh at this in the future. Cut youR losses and move on. 1
Mrlonelyone Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Look at it this way. If an out gay man kissed and made out with a woman would it mean he must be straight? If you or another woman made out with a woman while drunk would it be a big deal? This is an isolated experience and means nothing much. He enjoyed having certain nerve endings stimulated. 1
rocketman122 Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 I dont think he's gay. could be he was curious. but you said he was drunk. how drunk though, who knows. My GF thinks and says im gay. she says because I invest a lot of money in dressing nice and buy expensive designer underwear and I put a lot of effort into looking good/working out.. HAHA. no way in hell am I gay. I will do things with woman that the straightest man wouldnt think of. all I do is think about women. well, woman. my GF. when I see 2 guys kissing, I can taste my gastric juices in my mouth and want to throw up. im as straight as they come. but I am a metrosexual.
Els Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 If you're a genuine poster.. It doesn't matter whether he's gay or not. What you should be more concerned about is that he kissed another person while he won't even make out with you, his gf. Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge red flag, that. 1
Feelin Frisky Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Consuming alcohol has never once resulted in me letting a man suck my neck (or anything else on my person for that matter and I consumed a hell of a lot alcohol in my time). I don't buy that drinking excuses or explains such behavior. If you're straight, you just don't think like that.
Mrlonelyone Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 I dont think he's gay. could be he was curious. but you said he was drunk. how drunk though, who knows. My GF thinks and says im gay. she says because I invest a lot of money in dressing nice and buy expensive designer underwear and I put a lot of effort into looking good/working out.. HAHA. no way in hell am I gay. I will do things with woman that the straightest man wouldnt think of. all I do is think about women. well, woman. my GF. when I see 2 guys kissing, I can taste my gastric juices in my mouth and want to throw up. im as straight as they come. but I am a metrosexual. Isn't it a damn shame that dressing with about as much creativity and fashion sense as George Washington makes one a somethingasexual now? @feeling frisky There is a spectrum from gay to straight. Recent image by auntb93also on Photobucket So you are a Kinsey scale 0 totally 100% straight. This man may be 90% straight. Kissing one guy dosen't make a man anything more than that.
MYCluciferase Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 True that there is indeed a spectrum of sexuality from straight to gay, true that he was 'drunk' and that he was very upfront and honest about it (points to him for that, whatever the truth), but.... 1) He doesn't do the things with you that he did with this man? Seriously? 2) 'Everyone' seems to think he's gay? 1) hints that you (plural) or he have issue of physical intimacy... so that's something that you needed to talk about anyway, probably. If he didn't have such an issue with a man, then you really need to talk about his attraction to you as well as his sexual orientation. 2) Why do other people think that about him? Could you give us more information. I've had three friends in my life who everyone around assumed were gay, and two of them indeed were, although one fought it for two decades (in fact unhappily dated women constantly during that time, struggling to enjoy physicality with them while very occasionally having intense secret incidents with men...). You see where I'm coming from?
Kristinch1 Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Yes he is gay. I was dumped for a man as a teenager. I only see heartbreak for you with him.
mammasita Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Whether he is curious/gay/bi/straight/trans/purple/alien...... the FACT is - he made out with another person that is NOT you, alcohol or not. Sure he sounds like he might be leaning towards being more sexually attracted to men, but that's irrelevant. He cheated, let him go.
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