Divasu Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Sounds like you're casually dating. If you want more, ask for it. If he's not on the same page as you and you're fine with casually dating, keep dating casually. It bothers you enough that you're seeking advice, so, that should tell you something... His needs seem to be getting met, so why can't your needs be met too?
Author Car10e Posted November 19, 2012 Author Posted November 19, 2012 Sounds like you're casually dating. If you want more, ask for it. If he's not on the same page as you and you're fine with casually dating, keep dating casually. It bothers you enough that you're seeking advice, so, that should tell you something... His needs seem to be getting met, so why can't your needs be met too? I am seeking advice because I want to know if it is normal. I have never really casually dated someone, and by asking him how come he doesn't text me all the time, makes me seem needy. I'm not sure how many of these responses are from guys, but I would've liked to hear from a guy's perspective, because I know girls tend to over analyze the situation as I am probably doing. I've said numerous times, at the moment I don't want a serious relationship with him, but it would be nice to know if he is still interested, and maybe in a few months or so it could possibly turn into one.
Divasu Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 I am seeking advice because I want to know if it is normal. I have never really casually dated someone, and by asking him how come he doesn't text me all the time, makes me seem needy. I'm not sure how many of these responses are from guys, but I would've liked to hear from a guy's perspective, because I know girls tend to over analyze the situation as I am probably doing. I've said numerous times, at the moment I don't want a serious relationship with him, but it would be nice to know if he is still interested, and maybe in a few months or so it could possibly turn into one. It's "normal", for two people who are casually dating each other. A few times I have asked if he wanted to hang out, where he just ignores my invitation. ^Case in point.^ Sooo, your initial question was whether or not you should "stay or leave". My response to you is that if you're OK with casually dating, stay. If you're not, then go. Or, perhaps there is an "in-between" (IE: date each other, date others seperate and see where it goes).
Author Car10e Posted November 19, 2012 Author Posted November 19, 2012 A little update: He texted me this morning, saying he's sorry he hasn't responded to me.
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