dsk Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Today I did an one-hour training with my personal trainer. This was the first that we met. He is super cute. During the training he kept doing small talks with me. I noticed that he wears a ring on his right hand ring finger and wears a necklace (not girly one, but more rocker style). But I can't help wonder if he is a gay...I mean he didn't act like a gay at all, but why he wears a ring on that gay finger?
carhill Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Has he ever been married? I ask because I often wear rings on my right ring finger which were worn there when I was married, including a couple subsequent versions of my original wedding band which I now wear as ordinary jewelry. They won't fit any other fingers correctly and I don't want to pay to have them re-sized. Didn't know about the 'gay' finger thing. That could be problematical.
Author dsk Posted November 18, 2012 Author Posted November 18, 2012 I don't think he is married or was married, because he is a graduate student as me and he is 25, but I could be wrong.
carhill Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 'That's a lovely ring. Rings always have a story to tell'..... Shy smile. See what happens. 1
newmoon Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 just compliment the style of the ring and ask him what it signifies. my bf was wearing a wedding band when we met - turned out it was his mom's wedding band and he wears it for sentimental reasons. you need to ask...
CarrieT Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Not sure why a guy wearing a ring = being gay... I make jewelry and have made lots of rings for men for their other hands - many because they like the bling. Google "Johnny Depp hands" - you'll see a ton of pictures of both his hands with lots of rings on several fingers and I doubt anyone thinks he is gay. You will never know if you don't ask.
Feelin Frisky Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 I used to wear two rings on my right hand. I never heard of it meaning anything about my sexual preferences. One was given to me by my dad and the other--a pinky ring of 24kt gold in a celtic knot with a ruby in the middle-- was inherited from the husband of my mother's aunt who was a wealthy lawyer. My style has changed and I don't wear them now (need to lose some weight too to get 'em on but wore them through my 20's&30's a lot).
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