DollWelch Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 He and I agreed, if either one of us started to become serious with a person (serious dating/relationship), we would notify or tell each other. At the time he did go out on dates/he was dating a woman -but said it wasn't serious at all. A few weeks have passed and I haven't heard from him about that. Does this mean he has moved on? Or perhaps he is seriously dating? [by the way, he is the same guy from my previous thread(s)]. Not too long ago he did text me a 'hi', but I didn't respond. I haven't contacted him since the last time we spoke about that serious dating/relationship issue. The reason why I haven't contacted him in weeks is because I'm trying to move on because I feel dating him would not work out. But lately, I have been having 2nd thoughts about this. What is he thinking? Would it be a good idea to contact him?
Author DollWelch Posted November 18, 2012 Author Posted November 18, 2012 I think I have come to a point where rarely do I get to come across a great guy. And I feel I have here. I don't want to mess this up, but I feel I already have. Is it too far gone to contact him?
tori0001 Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Send a text to say hi, was wondering how everything is.
plainjane79 Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 I think I have come to a point where rarely do I get to come across a great guy. And I feel I have here. I don't want to mess this up, but I feel I already have. Is it too far gone to contact him? I skimmed your previous threads but I'm a little confused...have you ever met this guy in person? If not, I think you are living in a fantasy. You don't know him and you are assuming things. For all you know, he is married and has been lying to you all this time. No sense in putting this much thought and emotion into an illusion. But putting that aside for a moment, and assuming he's legit, it's never too late to contact someone. You can always just send him a text saying "hey stranger, how's it going?" The only thing you should be considering, though, is how you will feel if you contact him and he HAS moved on, or if he doesn't answer you at all. I have been there...and it SUCKS. I don't know if he's moved on but it's certainly possible, and if I were you, I'd prefer not to know.
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