j_weik19842004 Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 First off, i still work for her uncle. I couldn't make it into work 1 day because of some family problems. Anyhow, i guess he told her that, so she called me and asked how i was doing. Then she started to say that we should realy hang out. I told her that it wouldnt be a good idea, but she insisted we hang out. I tell her that im having people over tonight, and she invites her self over by saying "Well if you do, call me, and I'll come over." Why is she trying to come back into my life?
hurtingandconfused Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 Why is she trying to come back into my life? She wants to be your friend. She feels guilty and she feels that she owes you a friendship.
ukie-cutie Posted August 7, 2004 Posted August 7, 2004 It's hard to put someone that's been that close to you emotionally back in the "just friends" category. Still, people have done it, so there must be a way, right? Unless your relationship had serious insurmountable difficulties, there is a chance that a future reunion could be possible. The fact that she still wants to be involved with you speaks highly of her, unless she's just the possessive or insecure type. If you still are having harboring anger and resentment toward her for whatever was the reason you broke up, or still have feelings for her, you might want to - take time to think about it. So...if your ex is an all-around good person, forget all the bad and be friends as in this world good people and good friends is the best you can have. However it works out, good luck to both of you.
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