dreamingoftigers Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 I've thought about it a little bit. The offers haven't just come in conjunction with a weight gain.....they've all happened within a couple blocks of my school. A few things are happening in that area: 1. Students, I am one..... It might be good "picking grounds" for guys who want the cheap and easy. 2. Construction, 3 HUGE projects going on in the area, lots of workers, not all domestic. 3. A large population of displaced/low-income/vagrants....just the type of area to seek out that activity. The area used to be somewhat skinny and they tore out tons of old buildings. They are trying to revitalize it, but it is entirely possible that it still remains more of a meeting area for that kind of trade. I have also been offered drugs not far from there (no thanks).
xdahliax Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 lol. Hey, I think you're onto something there. Maybe it's the ponytail. I never used to wear a ponytail, but in the last year started to wear one. I read somewhere that men are really attracted to ponytails, so maybe that has something to do with it. I only wear a ponytail to tame my curly hair sometimes, but maybe men associate ponytails with being easy. Own that pony tail, work that updo. Can I have yo number?
dreamingoftigers Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Any female who gets in a car with 2 guys she doesn't know means she is borderline retarded Blame the victim much?
PhillyDude Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Blame the victim much? Yes when a victim puts herself in that situation
dreamingoftigers Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Yes when a victim puts herself in that situation How's the job search going?
NYC-BigKat Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Maybe because they are tired of all the bullsh*T you have to go through during the dating process. I'm a guy who loves to pay to play Um..this is so weird but I told my friend that had offered money for sex in the past to send a bunch of offers on facebook & see what happens. He does it & sends out over 100 offers to girls. He got 27 replies. 21 were girls mad at him for offering them money for sex & the other 6 wanna know what else to do so they seem interested right? I dont know this is really really crazy .
PhillyDude Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Um..this is so weird but I told my friend that had offered money for sex in the past to send a bunch of offers on facebook & see what happens. He does it & sends out over 100 offers to girls. He got 27 replies. 21 were girls mad at him for offering them money for sex & the other 6 wanna know what else to do so they seem interested right? I dont know this is really really crazy . But why does he want his real name and picture showing when he makes a offer like that on FB? Isn't that risky? I always thought you were supposed to be discrete about it
NYC-BigKat Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 But why does he want his real name and picture showing when he makes a offer like that on FB? Isn't that risky? I always thought you were supposed to be discrete about it He is discreet yes he is. He has another alias & no photo up there so none of the people knows anything u know. He sent offers to teen girls & some in their 20s and 5 of 6 interested girls are teens. I'm texting him right now to see what else is going on.
PhillyDude Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 He is discreet yes he is. He has another alias & no photo up there so none of the people knows anything u know. He sent offers to teen girls & some in their 20s and 5 of 6 interested girls are teens. I'm texting him right now to see what else is going on. Well why would a girl be stupid enough to respond to a random message from a guy with no photo? Whoever said yes must be slow fat, and lonely LOL
NYC-BigKat Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 Well why would a girl be stupid enough to respond to a random message from a guy with no photo? Whoever said yes must be slow fat, and lonely LOL No no the girls all look pretty cute & are in shape not ugly nope. My friend dont have numbers yet but maybe they'll want pics of him before they do?
PhillyDude Posted November 19, 2012 Posted November 19, 2012 No no the girls all look pretty cute & are in shape not ugly nope. My friend dont have numbers yet but maybe they'll want pics of him before they do? And once they get his pic he maybe reported for solicitation LOL:laugh: 1
BetheButterfly Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 Only if you look the part. It is sad how men categorize women depending on how they dress. When I was married to my first husband, one guy in the grocery store propositioned me. He said he had never f..... a redhead before and asked how much. This was around 10 years ago. I couldn't believe it. No guy had ever said/asked me that before. I told him the first thing that popped into my mind: "My husband is going to kill you." He left me alone after that, but I asked a man who worked at the grocery store to walk with me to my car, and he did with no problem. I told him about the guy and he said he'd keep his eye out for him. I was wearing a professional, feminine outfit - slacks and a nice blouse. I wasn't dressed like a prostitute, nor do I act like one. As for women who are dressed "immodestly" as my Mom says, they have the right to dress how they want without being considered merchandise up for sale. It greatly saddens me how some men in our culture are becoming increasingly less respectful of women and are instead merely viewing them as sexual objects to buy in order to satisfy their lusts. 1
BetheButterfly Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 Yes it is becoming more and more normal, whether you "look the part" or not. Sadly, I'm not surprised. I don't dress slurry at all, but I do dress broke when I go to school and despite my huge weight problem I get serious offers. Our culture is losing its respect for women. It's disgusting. Agreed I think guys think because I don't look well-off and I have a weight issue that I must be easy, so why not? I wonder how many girls fall into this trap, thinking they are not worth anything but being payed to pleasure guys for a bit and that they might as well do it and be payed for it? This summer two guys pulled up beside me and asked if I would get in the car with both of them for money I notice that it has actually gotten much WORSE since I put on weight. Can't figure that one out. The only thing I figure is that they think "a mouth is a mouth." That makes me so mad. Yeah, sad to say these "men" only think that women are body parts - mouth, ass, vagina. They don't care about the whole woman. I'm so glad not all men are like that. There are many men still who love and respect women, and don't just think of them as sexual toys. 1
LittlePrince Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 this **** happened twice already just last week. me and my homegirl was coming from this party in knickerbocker when 2 guys in a suv pulled up and asked for directions so we gave it to them. then they asked our ages (18 & 20) so then they wanna know if we wanna chill with them for a min. we said nah cuz we dont know them like that and its late. so then they wanna know how much to just get us in the car. we just laugh and ignore them after that. then on facebook I got hit up with some random older dude asking me if I wanna make some easy $$ so I say whats good. he hits me back and says we could link up at the parking garage outside a skating rink for $100. so I ask him what he looking for exactly and he says just some oral for a while, nothing I aint comfy with doing. I tell him nah. so I tell my homegirl about this and she says this is getting more of a norm out here cuz some other dudes was hitting her up on twitter with offers. are guys getting that desperate they gotta do this now? talk to me chulos and be serious no stupid stuff lmao. You come off as a prostitute by the way you act/dress and men treat you as such. What is mysterious about this?
PhillyDude Posted November 20, 2012 Posted November 20, 2012 It is sad how men categorize women depending on how they dress. When I was married to my first husband, one guy in the grocery store propositioned me. He said he had never f..... a redhead before and asked how much. This was around 10 years ago. I couldn't believe it. No guy had ever said/asked me that before. I told him the first thing that popped into my mind: "My husband is going to kill you." He left me alone after that, but I asked a man who worked at the grocery store to walk with me to my car, and he did with no problem. I told him about the guy and he said he'd keep his eye out for him. I was wearing a professional, feminine outfit - slacks and a nice blouse. I wasn't dressed like a prostitute, nor do I act like one. As for women who are dressed "immodestly" as my Mom says, they have the right to dress how they want without being considered merchandise up for sale. It greatly saddens me how some men in our culture are becoming increasingly less respectful of women and are instead merely viewing them as sexual objects to buy in order to satisfy their lusts. It's also sad that lots of women think just because they have a vagina they get to demand that a guy be "Financially stable" How many men is stable these days? As long as he is working then that should be enough 1
Shaun-Dro Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 It is sad how men categorize women depending on how they dress. When I was married to my first husband, one guy in the grocery store propositioned me. He said he had never f..... a redhead before and asked how much. This was around 10 years ago. I couldn't believe it. No guy had ever said/asked me that before. I told him the first thing that popped into my mind: "My husband is going to kill you." He left me alone after that, but I asked a man who worked at the grocery store to walk with me to my car, and he did with no problem. I told him about the guy and he said he'd keep his eye out for him. I was wearing a professional, feminine outfit - slacks and a nice blouse. I wasn't dressed like a prostitute, nor do I act like one. As for women who are dressed "immodestly" as my Mom says, they have the right to dress how they want without being considered merchandise up for sale. It greatly saddens me how some men in our culture are becoming increasingly less respectful of women and are instead merely viewing them as sexual objects to buy in order to satisfy their lusts. I cant blame the men on that because too many are inviting the idea of the merchandise up for sale every day.
kaylan Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 (edited) From the way you talk OP, you sound like you are from the hood. And I can see low class dudes from the hood offering girls money for sex (especially if those girls come across as low class too) And tbh, if you can say being offered money for oral doesnt make you uncomfortable, then you sound like the type of chick guys dont respect and use for pump and dumo. Edited November 26, 2012 by kaylan 1
TaurusTerp Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 It greatly saddens me how some men in our culture are becoming increasingly less respectful of women and are instead merely viewing them as sexual objects to buy in order to satisfy their lusts. My theory on this: Like a lot of other societal views (body image, attraction, etc), perceptions of women are shaped by the media. And if you look at women on popular TV shows (especially reality TV), they're almost universally worthless POS's.
kaylan Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Every man pays for it - unless he looks like Brad Pitt - in one way or another. Currency can be considered time, devotion, effort, courtship, gifts, dinners, dates, small offerings of endearment and feelings. Money is just paper and coins. Its very easy to come by and even easier to accumulate if the guy thinks with the upper head. Those guys wanted to know the price in advance which is more that can be said about the potential LTR/husband any woman is going to seek(is he trustworthy? Is he dependable? Does he want children? If I put out will he run?) Don't see it as disgusting. See it as what made America great: the ability to see what sex really is and to not ascribe to it magical properties and the hidden road to the Kingdom of Heaven. PS: if sex for money is disgusting, then alimony and false child-support(paying far more than the child needs) is what? the natural cycle of life? The irony is that the women who are against a honest exchange of commodity for money claim that the men who visit professionals are either: short, bald, fat or have a small penis. They're either oblivious to how many well-connected, highly attractive football players, movie stars, senators and the likes of them have escorts on the side. They only marry for two reasons: 1)they aren't smart enough to realize that they can have children without having to spend their entire fortune and life on women. 2) In order to be respected by society they have to be shown docile enough to settle down. Bollocks. If time devotion and effort are currency, doesnt that mean women pay too? Either way this is the silly argument used by guys who need to use cash to get sex. Lame 1
pink_sugar Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 It's also sad that lots of women think just because they have a vagina they get to demand that a guy be "Financially stable" How many men is stable these days? As long as he is working then that should be enough Nothing wrong with wanting a man or woman who is financially stable. That doesn't mean he/she needs to be loaded, but has a decent job with minimal debt and knows how to manage their money right.
LittlePrince Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 If time devotion and effort are currency, doesnt that mean women pay too? Either way this is the silly argument used by guys who need to use cash to get sex. Lame Almost all men need to use cash in some way to get laid.
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