is offered money for sex normal?

[rana-rana]

this **** happened twice already just last week.

 

me and my homegirl was coming from this party in knickerbocker when 2 guys in a suv pulled up and asked for directions so we gave it to them.

 

then they asked our ages (18 & 20) so then they wanna know if we wanna chill with them for a min. we said nah cuz we dont know them like that and its late.

 

so then they wanna know how much to just get us in the car. we just laugh and ignore them after that.

 

then on facebook I got hit up with some random older dude asking me if I wanna make some easy $$ so I say whats good.

 

he hits me back and says we could link up at the parking garage outside a skating rink for $100. so I ask him what he looking for exactly and he says just some oral for a while, nothing I aint comfy with doing. I tell him nah.

 

so I tell my homegirl about this and she says this is getting more of a norm out here cuz some other dudes was hitting her up on twitter with offers.

 

are guys getting that desperate they gotta do this now? talk to me chulos and be serious no stupid stuff lmao.

[SmileFace]

Aren't you from Coney Island?

 

Good to hear you didn't get washed away with the storm.

 

I am being serious - I think you may be the right person but I know there is a young girl on this board from that area, you have a familiar style of posting but I am not sure if it is you. Anyway if it isn't I hope that chick is ok.

[dreamingoftigers]

Yes it is becoming more and more normal, whether you "look the part" or not.

 

I don't dress slurry at all, but I do dress broke when I go to school and despite my huge weight problem I get serious offers.

 

It's disgusting.

 

I think guys think because I don't look well-off and I have a weight issue that I must be easy, so why not?

 

This summer two guys pulled up beside me and asked if I would get in the car with both of them for money

 

I notice that it has actually gotten much WORSE since I put on weight. Can't figure that one out. The only thing I figure is that they think "a mouth is a mouth."

[Feelin Frisky]

I don't know. But there are lots of free porn sites where they show guys making it look like they can just buy anyone. I think they are all staged. But I'm sure If money is no object there are those who have their price. It never makes sense to get in a car at night with strangers who can over-power you unless you're a ho.

[rocketman122]

if you dress like a slut, you might be radiating that. maybe you look easy.

 

nothing I aint comfy with doing

 

Im have a feeling if he offered you more money, you'd probably do more. like I said you must look like the kind in their eyes for them to offer.

[NYC-BigKat]

this **** happened twice already just last week.

 

me and my homegirl was coming from this party in knickerbocker when 2 guys in a suv pulled up and asked for directions so we gave it to them.

 

then they asked our ages (18 & 20) so then they wanna know if we wanna chill with them for a min. we said nah cuz we dont know them like that and its late.

 

so then they wanna know how much to just get us in the car. we just laugh and ignore them after that.

 

then on facebook I got hit up with some random older dude asking me if I wanna make some easy $$ so I say whats good.

 

he hits me back and says we could link up at the parking garage outside a skating rink for $100. so I ask him what he looking for exactly and he says just some oral for a while, nothing I aint comfy with doing. I tell him nah.

 

so I tell my homegirl about this and she says this is getting more of a norm out here cuz some other dudes was hitting her up on twitter with offers.

 

are guys getting that desperate they gotta do this now? talk to me chulos and be serious no stupid stuff lmao.

 

Uh..a friend one time told me he did that on a website & he liked it but I cant remember how much he paid. I never did it. Not sure if its really bad idea or not & I dont wanna be looked at as scummy .

[dasein]

One of my best school friends had a line that he always used, that I could never pull off in a million years, but he could somehow. Would get embarrassed whenever he did it, but it never pissed a woman off, and we usually ended up meeting her and friends. going for drinks, even hooking up sometimes. Incidentally, he was short, wore thick glasses, and was not a top specimen.

 

He would walk by a good looking girl on the street, grin at her and ask, "Hey, you sellin?" then beam a big smile. They would -always- start laughing and be friendly. No idea how he worked that, but he did. Guy's a multimillionaire today.

[rana-rana]

if you dress like a slut, you might be radiating that. maybe you look easy.

 

nothing I aint comfy with doing

 

Im have a feeling if he offered you more money, you'd probably do more. like I said you must look like the kind in their eyes for them to offer.

 

 

no papi no lol I look normal. like I dress in jeans, cute tops, my hair nice.

 

Im pr so maybe they thinking **** or something? wanna pic?

 

no lie but I get alot of ppl staring at me 24/7 but mostly older guys like 20s, 30s, 40, etc. some stupid ass guys in hs try to holler but they not that serious tho.

 

but these offers feel weird tho cuz its something new to me. guess its just a few girls here getting this stuff.

[jcrew11]

One of my best school friends had a line that he always used, that I could never pull off in a million years, but he could somehow. Would get embarrassed whenever he did it, but it never pissed a woman off, and we usually ended up meeting her and friends. going for drinks, even hooking up sometimes. Incidentally, he was short, wore thick glasses, and was not a top specimen.

 

He would walk by a good looking girl on the street, grin at her and ask, "Hey, you sellin?" then beam a big smile. They would -always- start laughing and be friendly. No idea how he worked that, but he did. Guy's a multimillionaire today.

 

Yes, I actually think if you are "ugly", "short" or "bald" - its easier to play the 'desperate flirt' card, because some girls will just let their guard down and be nicer if they don't view the man as a physical threat or physically intimidating. Some girls just want a good laugh. Some times it works because of shock value and its out of the ordinary, and some girls will be impressed by the guy's confidence. Some women also feel empowered or "nurse fix it" with a "uglier" man.

[Hawakai]

Every man pays for it - unless he looks like Brad Pitt - in one way or another. Currency can be considered time, devotion, effort, courtship, gifts, dinners, dates, small offerings of endearment and feelings. Money is just paper and coins. Its very easy to come by and even easier to accumulate if the guy thinks with the upper head.

 

Those guys wanted to know the price in advance which is more that can be said about the potential LTR/husband any woman is going to seek(is he trustworthy? Is he dependable? Does he want children? If I put out will he run?)

 

Don't see it as disgusting. See it as what made America great: the ability to see what sex really is and to not ascribe to it magical properties and the hidden road to the Kingdom of Heaven.

 

PS: if sex for money is disgusting, then alimony and false child-support(paying far more than the child needs) is what? the natural cycle of life?

 

 

Yes, I actually think if you are "ugly", "short" or "bald" - its easier to play the 'desperate flirt' card, because some girls will just let their guard down and be nicer if they don't view the man as a physical threat or physically intimidating. Some girls just want a good laugh. Some times it works because of shock value and its out of the ordinary, and some girls will be impressed by the guy's confidence. Some women also feel empowered or "nurse fix it" with a "uglier" man.

The irony is that the women who are against a honest exchange of commodity for money claim that the men who visit professionals are either: short, bald, fat or have a small penis.

 

They're either oblivious to how many well-connected, highly attractive football players, movie stars, senators and the likes of them have escorts on the side. They only marry for two reasons:

 

1)they aren't smart enough to realize that they can have children without having to spend their entire fortune and life on women.

 

2) In order to be respected by society they have to be shown docile enough to settle down.

 

Bollocks.

Edited November 17, 2012 by Hawakai

[dasein]

Yes, I actually think if you are "ugly", "short" or "bald" - its easier to play the 'desperate flirt' card, because some girls will just let their guard down and be nicer if they don't view the man as a physical threat or physically intimidating. Some girls just want a good laugh. Some times it works because of shock value and its out of the ordinary, and some girls will be impressed by the guy's confidence. Some women also feel empowered or "nurse fix it" with a "uglier" man.

 

Well, my friend was far from ugly at the time, just short with glasses, didn't mean to describe him as such if I did. He was/is actually a good looking guy, just not a ripped 6'2+ male model. The point was that he was able to pull this off despite not being in the top of male attractiveness.

[Shaun-Dro]

this **** happened twice already just last week.

 

me and my homegirl was coming from this party in knickerbocker when 2 guys in a suv pulled up and asked for directions so we gave it to them.

 

then they asked our ages (18 & 20) so then they wanna know if we wanna chill with them for a min. we said nah cuz we dont know them like that and its late.

 

so then they wanna know how much to just get us in the car. we just laugh and ignore them after that.

 

then on facebook I got hit up with some random older dude asking me if I wanna make some easy $$ so I say whats good.

 

he hits me back and says we could link up at the parking garage outside a skating rink for $100. so I ask him what he looking for exactly and he says just some oral for a while, nothing I aint comfy with doing. I tell him nah.

 

so I tell my homegirl about this and she says this is getting more of a norm out here cuz some other dudes was hitting her up on twitter with offers.

 

are guys getting that desperate they gotta do this now? talk to me chulos and be serious no stupid stuff lmao.

 

This stuff usually happens a lot with older men and younger women/girls. I think the paradox is when a man knows and understands that money talks greater volumes with them so they proposition. One of the reasons why in the escort business, over 90% are women between 18-25. OP, you will be receiving plenty more offers in the future up until that point. Facebook and Twitter are perfect venues for this kind of interaction so keep an eye out.

[PhillyDude]

this **** happened twice already just last week.

 

me and my homegirl was coming from this party in knickerbocker when 2 guys in a suv pulled up and asked for directions so we gave it to them.

 

then they asked our ages (18 & 20) so then they wanna know if we wanna chill with them for a min. we said nah cuz we dont know them like that and its late.

 

so then they wanna know how much to just get us in the car. we just laugh and ignore them after that.

 

then on facebook I got hit up with some random older dude asking me if I wanna make some easy $$ so I say whats good.

 

he hits me back and says we could link up at the parking garage outside a skating rink for $100. so I ask him what he looking for exactly and he says just some oral for a while, nothing I aint comfy with doing. I tell him nah.

 

so I tell my homegirl about this and she says this is getting more of a norm out here cuz some other dudes was hitting her up on twitter with offers.

 

are guys getting that desperate they gotta do this now? talk to me chulos and be serious no stupid stuff lmao.

 

 

I don't call it being desperate I call it being smart-lol A guy deciding to spend his money wisely instead of buying dinner over and over and she disappears. Better to just get right to the point lol

[charlietheginger]

Eazy solution wear baggy jeans

Baggy tshirt in your pics....

 

The offers will end...

[Tara247]

I don't know. But there are lots of free porn sites where they show guys making it look like they can just buy anyone. I think they are all staged. But I'm sure If money is no object there are those who have their price. It never makes sense to get in a car at night with strangers who can over-power you unless you're a ho.

 

I second that women need to be really careful out there. When I was a teenager, I knew this family friend that got into the car with a couple of men and they beat the crap out of her and raped her.

[PhillyDude]

I second that women need to be really careful out there. When I was a teenager, I knew this family friend that got into the car with a couple of men and they beat the crap out of her and raped her.

 

 

Any female who gets in a car with 2 guys she doesn't know means she is borderline retarded

[xdahliax]

Why did you bother answering the message about $100 and a parking garage? You must have known that nothing good can come out of that. Unless you're doing some other illegal activity, in which case the probability of getting comments like that probably increases.

[PhillyDude]

Why did you bother answering the message about $100 and a parking garage? You must have known that nothing good can come out of that. Unless you're doing some other illegal activity, in which case the probability of getting comments like that probably increases.

 

 

Because the offer was tempting LOL

[KathyM]

I noticed this too. I got offered money for sex twice in the last year by strangers, and I was not in any questionable place, and was wearing some exercise wear--nothing that would portray an image of being easy. This has never happened before to me, but must be getting more common, since it happened twice in the last year for me. Before, men would approach me to strike up a conversation showing interest, but they never offered money before, so this is a new phenomenon.

[PhillyDude]

I noticed this too. I got offered money for sex twice in the last year by strangers, and I was not in any questionable place, and was wearing some exercise wear--nothing that would portray an image of being easy. This has never happened before to me, but must be getting more common, since it happened twice in the last year for me. Before, men would approach me to strike up a conversation showing interest, but they never offered money before, so this is a new phenomenon.

 

 

Maybe because they are tired of all the bullsh*T you have to go through during the dating process. I'm a guy who loves to pay to play

[dreamingoftigers]

I noticed this too. I got offered money for sex twice in the last year by strangers, and I was not in any questionable place, and was wearing some exercise wear--nothing that would portray an image of being easy. This has never happened before to me, but must be getting more common, since it happened twice in the last year for me. Before, men would approach me to strike up a conversation showing interest, but they never offered money before, so this is a new phenomenon.

 

Yeah my wal-mart pants and consignment clothes are hardly a "do me now" look.

 

I can see how my ponytail gets em all hot though LOL.

[dreamingoftigers]

Guys like that are simply bypassing all the small talk....and going right for the kill. I guarantee they wouldnt be doing it if it didnt work. If they approach enough women, sooner or later it will. It's the same reason guys act the way they do on dating sites, sending provocative messages.

 

Most women refuse to accept that it works. They like to think that most of their peers would never entertain such an offer. Its easier for them to think the guys are total pigs and creepers, than to beleive there are women that would take them up on it.

 

Even if only 1 in 100 women takes the bite (as it were) if a guy were to throw out 10 offers a day, he's getting laid regularly. And by non-pros.

 

He also might find a regular girl for cheaper than what a pro etc would offer for. It would also be very discreet because the average housewife wouldn't want the neighborhood finding out about her "side-business."

[PhillyDude]

Even if only 1 in 100 women takes the bite (as it were) if a guy were to throw out 10 offers a day, he's getting laid regularly. And by non-pros.

 

He also might find a regular girl for cheaper than what a pro etc would offer for. It would also be very discreet because the average housewife wouldn't want the neighborhood finding out about her "side-business."

 

 

I was to make this type of offer online but I don't want to get in any trouble.

 

 

Is it wise to have a dating profile with your pic and offering a gift to play?

[KathyM]

Yeah my wal-mart pants and consignment clothes are hardly a "do me now" look.

 

I can see how my ponytail gets em all hot though LOL.

lol. Hey, I think you're onto something there. Maybe it's the ponytail. I never used to wear a ponytail, but in the last year started to wear one. I read somewhere that men are really attracted to ponytails, so maybe that has something to do with it. I only wear a ponytail to tame my curly hair sometimes, but maybe men associate ponytails with being easy.

[PhillyDude]

lol. Hey, I think you're onto something there. Maybe it's the ponytail. I never used to wear a ponytail, but in the last year started to wear one. I read somewhere that men are really attracted to ponytails, so maybe that has something to do with it. I only wear a ponytail to tame my curly hair sometimes, but maybe men associate ponytails with being easy.

 

My type has always been a female with a ponytail and glasses.

 

That is so sexy to me.