shadow15 Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 It was a nice thing to talk to her, she told me she missed me, gave me a big hug, and even told my ex she missed me being around and everything. I meant to ask what did she say when u said that, but didn't. It's now burning me up inside, I'm on the edge of my shoes to message her over Facebook and ask her to keep it between us and see what and all has been said, (even though i know she will eventually tell her older sister) and i know i shouldn't care, guess my mind is going on a I wanna know what they are saying about me. Last thing I said to her was tell your parents I said hey and happy thanksgiving. I suppose I just came here to vent it off my mind. What would you guys do? I know that what I should do, stay strong and stay nc, but its that sense of knowing what they are saying about u after your gone is killing me.
Hopeful714 Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 If you were a good guy and was good to her they will only say good things about you! If you were a douch*** they will call you that. If you think you have a chance, want her back, and think she would appreciate the contact...contact, but be ready for an outcome you may not like. If your not sure, doing it just to be friendly or dont think she will come back dont contact. It only opens old wounds. Also depends if you were dumped or dumpee.
LostOne1 Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 If you were a good guy and was good to her they will only say good things about you! If you were a douch*** they will call you that. If you think you have a chance, want her back, and think she would appreciate the contact...contact, but be ready for an outcome you may not like. If your not sure, doing it just to be friendly or dont think she will come back dont contact. It only opens old wounds. Also depends if you were dumped or dumpee. Contacting will open new wounds. I did it many times and sure I got my ex to talk more and not ignore me and all. But I was never able to reach her to sit down and talk our problems out. She always said she wasn't ready for it or that she doesn't want this anymore. Which is when I said enough is enough and I gave up. You can't live in the moment of knowing she WILL work it out and then SHE WONT. You need a definite answer and to me if she hasn't reached out then she doesn't want it.
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