every minute ,every hour ,every day

[pooloflife]

Partner left 5 weeks ago[see previous threads],moved in with her new partner,he was kicked out of family home,realized as time goes by she voted with her feet ,nether mind me or the children,i have turned this round into thinking as time goes by it does get easier, all the time she choses this man over her family closes the door a little more,adds an extra nail to the coffin and builds up to total closure,not there yet but feeling better everyday.I accept it was her choice not mine to end it,and will concentrate on myself and my children still at home,thier support has really helped,youngest daughter told me today to grow a pair,she explained i ve got the house, the children and the dogs she is the one living in the worst deprived area of our town in a ground floor flat,not seeing her children etc.I know it sounds mean but i cant help thinking the kids are right ,she made her choice ,i am just glad and happy i still have my children.Every day feels like improvement,worst time in the morning when i wake, takes an hour to clear any negative thoughts after that i can cope ok keeping busy walking the dogs etc, so please remember every day brings improvement,remember it was not your choice,but wht you do from now on is

[magnoliasoutherly]

Very good, but it sounds like you really are having a hard time. I'm getting the feeling that you two were married for a long time too. Is that right?