bob the brave Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Somebody once told me it's oxytocin, dunno? Ran across a girl in her late 30's who has a 3 year old son she dosen't have custody of or ever talks about. She was engaged to a guy, but then broke it off because he wanted to dump his credit card debt on her. However, she still wore the engagement ring for a year. She runs away from a descent guy that cared about her after she initiated the relationshiop into the arms of a married player. Then after she fails to find love there she returns to the descent guy who then showed her the door. So now six months later she marries someone else. This girl has a very high libido and loves talking about sex. She jokes, herself about her being a bad girl. How is it this girl can be married? I am so confused. What is it this girl is looking for? Can anyone tell me?
GiddyUp8 Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Find someone else, she's beyond repair, stop wasting brain cells on her, I don't care how many fingers you would cut off to be with her.
carhill Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 How is it this girl can be married? I am so confused. What is it this girl is looking for? Can anyone tell me? IMO, it's healthier to seek one's own enlightenment than pursue crawling inside another's psyche in an attempt to 'figure them out'. Accept the real. Why are some girls crazy? IME, it's part genetics and part FOO, augmented by subsequent life experiences. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 IMO, it's healthier to seek one's own enlightenment than pursue crawling inside another's psyche in an attempt to 'figure them out'. Accept the real. Why are some girls crazy? IME, it's part genetics and part FOO, augmented by subsequent life experiences. Same as why some guys are crazy....
carhill Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Yeah, but the topic isn't guys, right? It's a guy trying to figure out what went wrong; my take is that he was the 'decent guy' in this scenario with a late 30's lady. So, there you are.
dasein Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Who knows what she is looking for? Healthy people shouldn't be looking for her though. If you are involved with her in some way, move on to better options.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 Theres always a woman that has to throw in the "but guys do it too" comment....no matter what the topic is. No matter how many times its said....some woman acts as if shes the first one to inform us of it. This must be why women always want to interject themselves into male only clubs....they feel the need to inform us of things they think we dont know. . Yay, another thread that you can try and turn into a gender-conflict. Didn't see that coming.... Anyway OP I added in that comment to show that simply it wasn't something that GENERALLY set women apart, it's usually a dysfunction in a person's limbic system or prefrontal (reasoning) part of the brain. My comment was not meant to detract from Carhill's statement, but merely to augment. Some mental disorders are skewed more upwards one gender than the other. BPD is more common in females, for example. Chronic pain is far more common in females, which isn't a sign of "craziness" itself but can lead to increased stress and increased symptoms of "craziness." Furthermore many women usually have different sets of stress, so they tend to react differently than man to their individual circumstances. Best of luck.
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