ForeverlovingRami Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Ok check it. We broke up about 1 mounth and 1 week ago, haven't spoken much at all under that time. She initiated contact last week and we texted back and forth then she goes silent again. During the small talk that we did and the phone call she mentioned some stunning things. She actually got pregnant during the time spent apart but she apparently had unprotected sex with some random dude and don't know who the father is so shes doing abort. I feel it's absurt that she dident use protection especially when it was just some week after we broke up, now in my eyes that's just a ****ed up responsibility. So after she gone silent I removed her from facebook, deleted all the memories and felt like **** it, now it's time to really move on since shes not responding in any manners. So I texted her, told her about the cloths that I found that she still has here and the cloths that I want back, letting her know that I deleted her in all ways and that I need time to really get over her couse shes still in my mind daylie. Not in the same way it was like 2-3 weeks ago but still, I think about her alot. She then replyes, says she had a hard time with the pregnancy/abortion and everything considering the breakup and what not. We said that we shud see eachother this coming tuseday to swap cloths and talk some... Well I wonder, wtf shud I say? I mean it's gonna be so weird saying "goodbye" or whatever, I want her in my life but just not now. We can be friends, but that will take a wile. So shud I just switch things and let her go or? I'm confused....Again
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Ok check it. We broke up about 1 mounth and 1 week ago, haven't spoken much at all under that time. She initiated contact last week and we texted back and forth then she goes silent again. During the small talk that we did and the phone call she mentioned some stunning things. She actually got pregnant during the time spent apart but she apparently had unprotected sex with some random dude and don't know who the father is so shes doing abort. I feel it's absurt that she dident use protection especially when it was just some week after we broke up, now in my eyes that's just a ****ed up responsibility. So after she gone silent I removed her from facebook, deleted all the memories and felt like **** it, now it's time to really move on since shes not responding in any manners. So I texted her, told her about the cloths that I found that she still has here and the cloths that I want back, letting her know that I deleted her in all ways and that I need time to really get over her couse shes still in my mind daylie. Not in the same way it was like 2-3 weeks ago but still, I think about her alot. She then replyes, says she had a hard time with the pregnancy/abortion and everything considering the breakup and what not. We said that we shud see eachother this coming tuseday to swap cloths and talk some... Well I wonder, wtf shud I say? I mean it's gonna be so weird saying "goodbye" or whatever, I want her in my life but just not now. We can be friends, but that will take a wile. So shud I just switch things and let her go or? I'm confused....Again wow think about it what do you really want am confused to lol??
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 Yeah I know it kinda came out confusing, but still. It's like I said, I wanna get over the feelings I have and then connect as friends... But don't wanna hurt her so don't know how to say it to her... Really!
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Yeah I know it kinda came out confusing, but still. It's like I said, I wanna get over the feelings I have and then connect as friends... But don't wanna hurt her so don't know how to say it to her... Really! ok so you dont want to have a romantic relationship with her now??? then when you guys meet up tell her the true nothing beats the true and tell her as nice as you can ...if you tell her i dont think thats hurting her what will be wrong is if she thinks you feel the same romanticly and you dont right now
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Yeah I know it kinda came out confusing, but still. It's like I said, I wanna get over the feelings I have and then connect as friends... But don't wanna hurt her so don't know how to say it to her... Really! cute profile pic by the way lol:p 1
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 Well I know she doesn't want that, feels like she moved and harder than me so no, theres no point. Not that this moment atleast! I gota work with myself before jumping into something again and that might take a wile. And to be honest, it's good like this.. Can be lonesome somedays but wth I got my gym, the pool and my homies so i'm good for now... Maybe i stumble into someone sooner or later but that only time can tell
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 cute profile pic by the way lol:p Tbh, u look really cute aswell Facebook? Haha :laugh: 1
theLWord Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 You just solved your own problem, get with taya! Seriously though, if you could arrange a friend to exchange belongings so you don't see her, do that. What is there to talk about with her? She is sexually irresponsible, and who knows how many guys she had sex with unprotected if she doesn't even know who the father is. Be glad its not you and be smart, get tested, and don't go back. Don't be her friend, don't try to help her or fix her. You dodged a bullet, stay nc.
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 You just solved your own problem, get with taya! Seriously though, if you could arrange a friend to exchange belongings so you don't see her, do that. What is there to talk about with her? She is sexually irresponsible, and who knows how many guys she had sex with unprotected if she doesn't even know who the father is. Be glad its not you and be smart, get tested, and don't go back. Don't be her friend, don't try to help her or fix her. You dodged a bullet, stay nc. lol your so funny get with taya and the man is asking for advice for his ex hahaha
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Tbh, u look really cute aswell Facebook? Haha :laugh: aww thanks ..i have one do you??
veggirl Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 LOL. If you get Taya posting on your FB I bet that chick comes racing back for some attention! Anyway, s.hit you've only been broken up for a month and she has had UNPROTECTED sex with MULTIPLE people?! To the point she doesn't know who the dad is? Also are you sure she was even pregnant? I mean it has only been a month, so basically she would have had to have gotten her period one month ago and then gotten preg like 2 wks later, and NOW would just be finding out about it. Sounds kinda shady. I wonder if she cheated on you. Or is making up the pregnancy thing. Timeline is iffy. And if it's true, wow she was fking multiple randoms in a REALLY short time period, only 2 weeks after you broke up!!!! Maybe if you think about it like that you will get over your concern of "hurting" her. She is likely a liar anyway. Can't you give her crap to a friend or leave it outside your door and she can pick it up without you guys interacting? Forget trying to be her friend, you're still hung up on her big time and that's a terrible idea. I think you're gonna get sucked riiiight back in as soon as you see her in person if you choose to see her. You should not see her.
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 I wonder if she cheated on you. Or is making up the pregnancy thing. Timeline is iffy. And if it's true, wow she was fking multiple randoms in a REALLY short time period, only 2 weeks after you broke up!! Wow, well I have no clue if its multiple "random" dudes. I know it's 1 and they prolly did it just some week after we broke up unprotected, yeah ****ed up..It's like she has no respect for me at all anymore.. I mean she knew id find out about it and she knows I loved her madly so that's kinda cold doing such a thing. Hell it could just as much be my child but anyways shes doing an abortion. Which I think is the smartest thing since she doesn't have any ****ing job, no home not even an own bed to sleep in. Shes got a bag full of problems that's been following her, her hole life. I feel sorry for her sometimes and back then we we're similar in some ways just that shes the kinda type that doesn't give a **** anymore which im not im a struggler and it's gotten me FAR... Even tho she doesn't show it on the outside her behaveior showing different. I know I shud just move on, but I want my hoodies back god damnit! Naa but seriously, as the days pass by so does the memories along with her face. Sometimes I wonder if she played a awfully good game with me by keeping the boys aside, but I doubt that. She's a really honest person but lately shes been really shady. And when I look at the past comments and sum it all up, theres tons of better girls out there with beuty like hers but a mind set on the right track and that's what I'm after... And Taya, I'm Kristian Ekström on Facebook Sweden , out
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 Seriously though, if you could arrange a friend to exchange belongings so you don't see her, do that. What is there to talk about with her? She is sexually irresponsible, and who knows how many guys she had sex with unprotected if she doesn't even know who the father is. Be glad its not you and be smart, get tested, and don't go back. Don't be her friend, don't try to help her or fix her. You dodged a bullet, stay nc. Missed this one, but yeah... Truth hurts sometimes but youre totally right.. I went matrix on her and dodged that sh it, I shud stay NC 4 evah I guess.. Good point, good post! Ty
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Wow, well I have no clue if its multiple "random" dudes. I know it's 1 and they prolly did it just some week after we broke up unprotected, yeah ****ed up..It's like she has no respect for me at all anymore.. I mean she knew id find out about it and she knows I loved her madly so that's kinda cold doing such a thing. Hell it could just as much be my child but anyways shes doing an abortion. Which I think is the smartest thing since she doesn't have any ****ing job, no home not even an own bed to sleep in. Shes got a bag full of problems that's been following her, her hole life. I feel sorry for her sometimes and back then we we're similar in some ways just that shes the kinda type that doesn't give a **** anymore which im not im a struggler and it's gotten me FAR... Even tho she doesn't show it on the outside her behaveior showing different. I know I shud just move on, but I want my hoodies back god damnit! Naa but seriously, as the days pass by so does the memories along with her face. Sometimes I wonder if she played a awfully good game with me by keeping the boys aside, but I doubt that. She's a really honest person but lately shes been really shady. And when I look at the past comments and sum it all up, theres tons of better girls out there with beuty like hers but a mind set on the right track and that's what I'm after... And Taya, I'm Kristian Ekström on Facebook Sweden , out thanks so how are you doing today?
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 thanks so how are you doing today? Hehe so what's urs, was gonna add u? Well I'm just fine thanks for asking, been exercising alot today so just about to hit the slack, gonna read a book utill it falls on my face lol. How are u?
KatZee Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 I just tried Facebook stalking lmao... your profile doesn't come up when you put the name in. Probably why you haven't gotten a response from Taya loll.
veggirl Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 I just tried Facebook stalking lmao... your profile doesn't come up when you put the name in. Probably why you haven't gotten a response from Taya loll. I found it, it was the 2nd profile on the list. he has the same pic he uses on LS. (you should make it private OP lol)
taya Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 (edited) Hehe so what's urs, was gonna add u? Well I'm just fine thanks for asking, been exercising alot today so just about to hit the slack, gonna read a book utill it falls on my face lol. How are u? yeah i find you on there i will send you the friend request.... but am great thanks just got home my day was crazy lol so much to do and am going to jamaica in a few weeks so am trying to pack stuff for my family lol and i saw your tattoo grim reaper haha so hot Edited November 18, 2012 by taya
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 18, 2012 Author Posted November 18, 2012 i saw your tattoo grim reaper haha so hot Hahah ppl stalking me to find my profile n ****. It isen't private? Well I don't really care. And for the grimreaper, that ones messed up! Did it in thailand when I was totaly smashed! The Odin tatoo on my arm tho, pure art Well np's add me when u want to Taya, I'll see you there
taya Posted November 18, 2012 Posted November 18, 2012 (edited) Hahah ppl stalking me to find my profile n ****. It isen't private? Well I don't really care. And for the grimreaper, that ones messed up! Did it in thailand when I was totaly smashed! The Odin tatoo on my arm tho, pure art Well np's add me when u want to Taya, I'll see you there i send you a message on there ... Edited November 18, 2012 by taya
Author ForeverlovingRami Posted November 18, 2012 Author Posted November 18, 2012 I <3 that you <3 cats :love::love: Lmao How did u know I love cats? hahaha
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