ReadMyThread Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Okay so she left me for the other dude. We dated for 9 months. She Contacted me 2 months later and we got back of together. Then she left again 5 days after that and said, "I don't want to lead you on and hurt you even more." What's that mean? My thoughts are that means she got dumped by the guy she left me for and is waiting for him to come back to her because there was this one girl who was trying to get with me as me and my ex were broken up and I told her I didnt want to lead her on and hurt her when really I was waiting for my ex to come back. Which she did. Their relationship ended in the honeymoon phase so I would see why she would want to wait for him but really? It will end eventually. ORRR I'm also thinking that her saying that means she KNOWS that she will either leave me for another guy or cheat on me again and she doesn't want to do that to me again so she said that. She began drinking and doing drugs after she left me the first time and now she the second time she said that and also "Now that I am drinking and stuff. I'm scared I would do or say something that will hurt me.". I just keep telling myself, "She loves you and doesn't want to hurt you again knowing he will. She wants to protect you. Let her go.". I honesty feel we were the perfect couple at the wrong time. I'm 19 and want to be with her forever. Seriously. While she is 17 and still wants to explore and see what's out there. :/. She regretted her decision 3 times already and I feel she will again I the future. I mean a LONG time from now. Once she matures and realizes. Actually to be honest the next time she gets dumped she will probably try to talk to me again. I wish she would want me like she use to :/. But hey, life goes on. Time is everything.
not-a-drive-by Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Or she realises that she doesn't want to be with you? She tried to be with you again for 5 days, and something was not clearly working for her. Either it be the problems that previously existed or that she is not over her rebound. She hasn't really thought things through. Give each other some space and time.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 It means move on for good. Dishes are done.
Author ReadMyThread Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 Or she realises that she doesn't want to be with you? She tried to be with you again for 5 days, and something was not clearly working for her. Either it be the problems that previously existed or that she is not over her rebound. She hasn't really thought things through. Give each other some space and time. True. I think she isn't over the other guy for sure. She showed signs of not being over him. Too many.
suladas Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 She's only 17, the chance you were going to be together forever is like 1% or less? Don't waste your time on someone who left you, it's not worth it.
Author ReadMyThread Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 She's only 17, the chance you were going to be together forever is like 1% or less? Don't waste your time on someone who left you, it's not worth it. Lol. She said the same thing when she left the second time. She said "I don't want to lead you on and hurt you even more. I know how you feel. I'm not worth it." she might not be worth it but what we had together was. Is.
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