Irish81 Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 I've been in a relationship with this girl for over seven months. The relationship was going well and we seemed to really enjoy each others company. But several months into I began to realize that she had problems fully committing to me. She had a lot of stuff going on in her life so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Inside my head though I was wondering how long it was gonna take for us to be officially "together" as BF/GF. So in recent weeks I've begun to really worry. I reached out to a friend for some advice. By doing so I revealed some of her personal business but only in how it relates to our relationship. No malice intended and it was not in a gossip type matter. It was to a trusted friend of over 15 years. The problem is she saw the text by mistake and she has flipped on me. I could understand her being a little mad. I should have gone about it in a different matter. I've admitted to being wrong and am very sorry. But she just gets more mad each passing day. She not returning calls, text and even deleted our photos on FB. The end seems inevitable now. My question is not if it's over but why? The punishment doesn't fit the crime. I've made a mistake but I'm not perfect. I didn't cheat, abuse or do anything of that serious of nature. But she says I've broken her trust and it seems like that's that. I was worried about a breakup BEFORE all this and now it's happening before my eyes. Did I just give her an easy excuse out of a realtionship that she losing interest in anyway? Just seem like a relationship built on a steady foundation wouldn't crumble from such a relatively small incident. So girls, have any of you ever used a small fight to bail on a relationship that you wanted out of anyway?
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