Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 Why did you two break up, anyway? And who initiated it? Either way, it sounds like it's over. Big time. Leave the poor girl alone. Like others have said, your email was pretty bad. I don't mean to be rude, just trying to be honest. Good luck to you. Hope you get over this girl soon. ive resisted. and no problems in the bedroom department.
veggirl Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 Okay Fred. So yeah, why don't you take the rest of November off from contacting her. Baby steps........... geepers. have you met Imperfectionisbeauty? she might like a guy like you with all the obsession and what not, do you wanna have babies?
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 Okay Fred. So yeah, why don't you take the rest of November off from contacting her. Baby steps........... geepers. have you met Imperfectionisbeauty? she might like a guy like you with all the obsession and what not, do you wanna have babies? well seeing as it is my birthday tomorrow, it will be interesting to see if she messages me. and what about december?
veggirl Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 well seeing as it is my birthday tomorrow, it will be interesting to see if she messages me. and what about december? why don't you just get through the rest of november and then worry about december...
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 why don't you just get through the rest of november and then worry about december... why dont i just **** her off altogether?
dreamingoftigers Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 why dont i just **** her off altogether? Why don't you just drop her like she is clearly asking you to do? Even if you KNOW that you could make her happier than a pig in ****, what's the point in keeping toward that goal if she doesn't believe you anyhow and would rather get the cops after you than date you? Have you looked at articles/journals dealing with obsession and stalking/harassment? That is what you are doing to a tee. Have you looked at how to stop stalking/harassing?
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 Why don't you just drop her like she is clearly asking you to do? Even if you KNOW that you could make her happier than a pig in ****, what's the point in keeping toward that goal if she doesn't believe you anyhow and would rather get the cops after you than date you? Have you looked at articles/journals dealing with obsession and stalking/harassment? That is what you are doing to a tee. Have you looked at how to stop stalking/harassing? until when, she contacts me?
dreamingoftigers Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 until when, she contacts me? There: that sounds like a great idea. Just wait until she contacts you. Take up a hobby etc. until SHE contacts YOU. It is already pretty clear where you stand and she knows it. So now: dust yourself off, back slowly away from her email account. Cease any social media checks and simply wait for HER to contact YOU. Before this obsessive behaviour turns angry and violent. Or sad and suicidal.
The_Face Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 ive resisted. and no problems in the bedroom department. Heh? I have no idea what you're talking about, frederickkk. Does this girl even exist?
cavalier99 Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 frederikkk im really happy you are on this forum. You deserve a medal from all of us for persistence. Like i said before you are pure genius! You ARE the Energiser Bunny you just keep on going. I know there is a lesson to be leaned from this. We all take this breakup stuff way too seriously. I love it!
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 (edited) frederikkk im really happy you are on this forum. You deserve a medal from all of us for persistence. Like i said before you are pure genius! You ARE the Energiser Bunny you just keep on going. I know there is a lesson to be leaned from this. We all take this breakup stuff way too seriously. I love it! listen man, i dont give up on love. i know its there. its my birthday in 20 mins....see if she emails me happy birthday? or maybe remind her that it is? Edited November 16, 2012 by frederickkk
CarrieT Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 listen man, i dont give up on love. i know its there. its my birthday in 20 mins....see if she emails me happy birthday? She won't. This "love" is one-sided, but you don't see that.
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 She won't. This "love" is one-sided, but you don't see that. it really isnt.
The_Face Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Too bad this girl isn't on LS. We could all advise her to get a restraining order. 1
veggirl Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 it really isnt. how do you figure it isn't? anyway she was with you for 2 years...she knows your damn birthday. do not remind her. good lord. 1
cavalier99 Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 (edited) listen man, i dont give up on love. i know its there. its my birthday in 20 mins....see if she emails me happy birthday? or maybe remind her that it is? frederickkk has convinced me. Im breaking NC right now. Ive wanted too for so long!! I already have like 12 long emails and 30 texts that I wrote and never sent since that breakup 2 months ago. They are all loaded up and ready to go and Im just going to blast them all over my EX. I sure this release will make me feel better Edited November 17, 2012 by cavalier99 2
Tree_Salmon Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 You should not have doubts about spending your life with me. i know we never did much, but that was because of my lack of self confidence, and that is the truth. i was a fun outgoing guy once, and it diminished at uni. im in the gym now and building it again. i know i can make you happy and laugh, life is too short for quarrels. i cant get rid of this ring. i cant bring myself to throw everything away. i cannot move on from you. i have never felt like this in my life. wanted kids, marriage one day with you. Why cant you just say hi? its my birthday tomorrow. all i get is silence. no reply. I cant even leave this country, as that leaves you behind. you gave mixed messages when we had that coffee, then rejected me? Im not obsessed, im in love, and im NOT losing you to somebody else when i know you can be happy with me if you just believed. our relationship was far from over, it had **** points yes, but it was far from over, was completely fixable with an adult chat, not just a kiss and make up, i loved and still love you more than anything. We could go travelling, see the world together if you wanted to. The amount i want to hold you again, you have no idea. I could just choose to move on and stop contacting you, maybe my emails are blocked? But moving on is then letting go of love, and i do not wish to do it when i know this is fixable. You gave mixed messages that day, and that is why i non stop texted you, and that is why i cant let go, because i know you love me too, so why cant you go there? the only chance of getting anyone back is NOT sending s**t like this 3
Author frederickkk Posted November 17, 2012 Author Posted November 17, 2012 frederickkk has convinced me. Im breaking NC right now. Ive wanted too for so long!! I already have like 12 long emails and 30 texts that I wrote and never sent since that breakup 2 months ago. They are all loaded up and ready to go and Im just going to blast them all over my EX. I sure this release will make me feel better how about do a best of? dont send loads. and yeah, im breaking convention. want to know why? Because she cant have her cake AND eat it. im no back up plan, nor consolation prize. and yes, i keep pushing, and no, i wont get a restraining order, i bet my house on it. 1
Under The Radar Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 I've heard that putting a cucumber up your ass does the trick. 1. A pair of ice tongs 2. A friend who can keep a secret I suggest thinking this over first .
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 how about do a best of? dont send loads. and yeah, im breaking convention. want to know why? Because she cant have her cake AND eat it. im no back up plan, nor consolation prize. and yes, i keep pushing, and no, i wont get a restraining order, i bet my house on it. lol dident she get a restraining order on you already??
Under The Radar Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Restraining Order? Hell, I was worried about that seedless cucumber. They can be very difficult to extract, hence my advice . 1
LostOne1 Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 how about do a best of? dont send loads. and yeah, im breaking convention. want to know why? Because she cant have her cake AND eat it. im no back up plan, nor consolation prize. and yes, i keep pushing, and no, i wont get a restraining order, i bet my house on it. Dude.. stop being stupid. I did what you did.. just not as much as you, but I fought for her. Yes it worked in some ways, but I rather have kept NC. Because when 2 people who are hurt and very angry talk.. they say things they don't mean and hurt each other more to a point where you can't even save the relationship. Trust me man... I know because I did what you did with my ex and she told me straight up. HEARING from me made her miserable and frusterated. It was as if she had a good day and seeing my text made it a bad day. Let her have her cake.. who cares what she did to you? Karma will get her at some point. Why waste your life and time on her? Do something productive with your time, that you can look back at and say I moved on and did some cool things on the way. Don't let ONE girl ruin your day, love and life. She's ONE girl... and billions of others around you. Not saying you should go and date, but that ONE girl shouldn't be enough to make you into this person. be the BETTER person... let her go and know you can be better
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Restraining Order? Hell, I was worried about that seedless cucumber. They can be very difficult to extract, hence my advice . lol yeah haha
Simon Phoenix Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 So Todd Trollington is still rolling huh? 1
taya Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 So Todd Trollington is still rolling huh? yeah still rolling haha
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